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Hey Raksasha...

I can tell you, as a man, age does make a difference. I'm 35 and my girlfriend is 25. That's "only" ten years difference, and 75% of the time I don't even notice. But there is a...

I met my friend's roommate at a charity dinner recently. I was with another girl so I didn't ask her for her phone number. It just didn't feel very class to be sitting right beside my date for the...

Wakeup... you may have just become my new best friend!

I didn't know you were a woman. You sound like some pissed off guy that has had women walk all over him his whole life. But you being a woman...

Oldskool83... I'm not sure I understand most of your last post. "NO FUK ON ME"??? What does that mean?

I agree with you that no one is too busy to eat. This is why I am going to leave this girl...

I guess you and I will have to agree to disagree Wakeup.

You seem to come from that sort of rigid military, "If I had said them, like you'd like me to have, you'd likely not take heed of them..."...

I agree oldkool83...

Judging by her choice of words, I'd say I am an "option," but that I am an option that she IS curious about. I am still just an option, in that when I last called her, she...

Alright, alright Wakeup... you've got my attention!

So you are one of those people who has made almost 3,000 posts on this website in less than 7 months. So, I get it. You are trying to be the...

Hi Alice.... Thanks!!! I agree. I am 100% sure that I can handle that kind of distance. I actually LOVE this kind of distance. I mean, i love looking forward to seeing someone. I love making plans on...

Okay, the title of this post is a little misleading. I know exactly which woman I like better. I don't need help deciding. But here's the situation. I have been very casually dating this one girl for...

Not judging, but just trying to act like a mirror here. This sentence that I've quoted above... RIGHT THERE is your problem in one sentence.

I'm sure that you are friends with mostly guys,...

Thanks Saya...

I agree. From a man's perspective. I don't care if are a girl is absolutely gorgeous or if she is plain and wears nerdy glasses. If she and I hit it off, and she is at least somehow...

I just moved to a new city. I've never met someone online before, but I figured, since I work all day, and am brand new to town... I'd sign up for one of those online dating sites. It worked. I've...

I'd say there is a strong possibility that he has feelings for you. He was obviously into you when you started dating his friend. And by the way... never do that again. It is the most cruel thing a...

First off... I can identify with the small town, and the getting out, and never going back. More power to you on that one! Atta-girl!

There are a coupe of red flags that shot up during your post,...

I haven't heard a word from my ex after we broke up 3 1/2 months ago. The details of our break up are long and anti-climactic. But basically, she got into some very very serious financial troubles,...

I was living in one city, she in another. We actually grew up in the same town, and her mom was my favorite teacher of all time; real life changing class for me in high school. But I only briefly met...

Hey Aviator... I totally understand where you are coming from. We've all be told since birth that you cannot control who you are attracted to. It's all "chemistry" right?

All that being said, and...

Yeah, I think you guys are right. Oh well. Note to self, Don't assume that any humor, or any real emotion for that matter, will translate via text. I've always known that, but I guess I thought that...

I have lived next to a girl for almost 3 years. She works really weird hours; all night from 7:00 pm until 7:30 am, 3 days a week, and then has Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday off. I have...

Please, this is my life here, and I take it seriously. If you are just going to give me your hunch, or some angst-filled response that is filtered through your own past failures... please don't. I...

I have never been in a relationship like the one that I am in right now. I love her with all my heart, but she is just SO scattered right now. When we met, everything was great. Better than great! It...

Wow... you think that a good and healthy way to "get [someone] into shape by teaching them to trust you" is to pass out on friend's couches, or drive home drunk, and not call even when you...

Boy these kinds of posts always get so overly complicated once people start posting THEIR feelings rather than actual advice.

The facts are, you liked her as a friend. She wants to be more than...

Okay... I am pretty good at GIVING advice, but I kinda stink at seeing my own situations very clearly.

My girlfriend is great. I love her. But we are in a long distance thing for the time being,...

Dude... it sounds to me like you somehow want there to be something going on. To me I see a young girl stand with her back against a wall, with some young dude sitting on a table telling a joke or...