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Hey Steve,

First of all, congrats on that weightloss - that's some achievement. I bet you feel much better looking in the mirror now, and psychologically it can truly help with confidence and self...

I hate to be a hater but hope is one of the biggest causes of history repeating itself in these scenerios and you getting hurt again.

I admire positivity, but when it's still often one sided, it...

I think you have the wrong thread darling. I do not have a new love connection.

On the upside - today I never contacted her. I think I am getting the hang of this. Blanking her isn't easy but I...

Live and let die.

The amount of times you have broken up with this single person is probably more than I will in my lifetime of relationships. You two are a car that's missing a wheel, it's...

Well she text me last night to say she's really worried about me and that she misses me..

I think it's more of a sympathy *friend* thing. I'd be stupid to get up hope about rekindling the...

Awww, you poor thing. Listen you must stop torturing yourself.

This guy clearly just isn't that bothered, I know it's a bitter pill to swallow - I'm in the same place. You just have to let him...

You really are an insensitive asshole.

OP: Contacting her mum was the right thing to do. Maybe contact her close friends too and ask them to visit her. However, do not be baited into going...

Lets not overreact. She did not actually cheat on her boyfriend. She merely used her ex as a shoulder to cry on, whilst this could be deemed as inappropriate and far better would have been an...

Thank you Hope, in some sick way - it's nice that others are suffering from this problem and it's not just me. Okay, that sounds wrong but you know what I mean. I am not the only emotional mess on...

I would agree with 7.5/10. Easily above average. I am a straight male, but I still feel I can distinguish what's attractive and not. I do not forsee your looks being a factor that will prevent you...

Argh, my friend I feel for you. It is a bitter pill to swallow but she simply did not feel as strongly toward you as you did to her. I am so sorry.

Some people get over things much quicker than...

Hey people,

Well everything was seemingly going great. Much like a Hollywood movie when the idealistic couple are living it up in the countryside with the dog and the sun out. Yesterday things...

Hey Hope.

Well my scenario is not all that different to yours. I'll let you keep this thread all for yourself - my misery can be displayed in it's own thread :D I'll make one tonight.

Like...

You've got to let this one go.

She's clearly a glutton for punishment. Let her be with the asshole, however hard it might be - one day she may have regrets but then it will be up to her to make...

Was he emotional at all?

Did his love seem real to you? It does seem very soon to get hitched again. I know that must hurt, but you have to keep on keeping on.

He found you attractive and...

I just wanted to say, big thanks to Alpha.

I simply substituted my ex for hers and then re-read your advice in that context for this thread. You really talk sense.

Hope : I really am sure it...