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I'm feeling frustrated and restless just reading this. Sigh. Are you talking with any other women? Maybe you'd be a bit happier with someone more responsive...

34, 21 (including one girl)...funny thing, though, I was a late bloomer and was a virgin until I was 25. Then, after I got divorced, I guess I was kind of making up for lost time.

Without knowing how your fetish manifests itself (thinking along the lines of the usual every day foot fetish), it seems like an easy way would be to start massaging her feet while you're sitting on...

That sounds really positive, I'm glad. Sometimes, when a person is usually so agreeable, the ONE time they stand up for something can be (unpleasantly, lol) surprising.

I think if you are able to...

Wow, are you really sure you're ready to move in together? It seems like it's not so much a questions of "talking sense into him" but a matter of determining for yourself what you are willing to...

This is something I've been working on for a while myself.

It's like they were in situations before where their every move was questioned and I guess it just seemed easier to lie than to have...

I know, right?

He just has a lot of women friends (he's very sensitive, lol). They're mostly classmates, people he grew up with, wives and girlfriends of other friends, fans (he's in a band), etc. As I had said...

Lol, no worries. I'm sure Michelle was just trying to help me feel more empowered, but in the end my boyfriend and I were able to have a nice, air-clearing conversation and I'm actually pretty glad...

I like this, thank you for the nice kick in the arse, I needed that.

Well, we talked about it and definately cleared the air. What was really bugging me was having seen her behavior and having no explanation for it. Turns out they didn't actually date, but were maybe...

Maybe something like, hey, so what's the deal between you and this girl? Were you guys ever together or something?

We've been together for a year and a half. Finding a way to approach the subject is exactly what I've been trying to do. It actually is mostly the general tight-fisted way he is about this...

That's hilarious, but not like my boyfriend at all. He's actually on the quiet side which is why it's a bit surprising. I guess I should've been asking questions a lot sooner, lol.

Ha ha, thanks. I'll probably post an update next week. Damn.

Wow. Your so right about so many things.

There IS a good reason why I'm still here, but I am definately going to have a serious talk with him to set some very clear boundaries and definitions.
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Sorry, this is going to be a super long reply, but your asking some really good questions, thank you.

He generally likes other girls pics, and occasionally will comment something like "gorgeous"...

Well, looks like we're going to find out as soon as I can sit down with him and let him know how this is making me feel.

It just didn't seem very noticeable at first, and there was a lot of other...

Ha ha, no, that's not his name, but I DO have a friend like that (that I've never been "involved" with)! He's actually a lot of fun and we hang out all the time (which I'm totally open with my...

Yes, we've had the exclusive talk and the I love you talk and the I-never-want-to-do-anything-but-make-you-happy talk, lol.

I know that in past relationships, we've both been burned by people who...

By the way, why DO people stay friends with their exes?

Yeah, it's not like I think he's banging them during the week or anything.

I just want to know who they are so if we run into them I'm prepared and don't feel like an idiot, and know if he's...

I'm not a guy, but I can definately tell you that those tears are often crocodile tears. I never believe them for a second.

He's saying he doesn't deserve you, and that he should give you space....

It's long distance during the week, but then we're together all weekend. We talk every night and message once or twice throughout the day. He's really pretty cool, which is why I'm still around. It's...

Is he friends with "loads" of his exes? What kind of interaction does he have with them? What do you feel is appropriate?