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I guess I should rephrase that. We didn't talk for a long time because I knew it wouldn't help me get over him, it took all summer before I would. It's only been recently that we started talking this...

I still have feelings for my ex (we're both 21). He seems like he still has feelings for me. I honestly have never had feelings for someone like I do for him. Instant attraction and comfort the first...

I'll try to keep it short but if you want more info, let me know. I've posted a long thread about the whole situation, but I was just thinking about the big picture tonight and wondering what you...

in a fortuitous turn of events, he and I hung out last night. He messaged me about something I had told him, that he had passed along to his friend's family, and they wanted to thank me, so we got...

That's the thing... I think he was honestly trying to sort out his own issues in order to be better to me. If I piece it together, even taking into account the bad things, that's what I get. He's not...

I don't understand. What part was him overreacting?

This was only a couple days ago, but it feels like an eternity. It's all I can think about pretty much.
For the people in the chatbox: the problem of not knowing me enough, I felt at the time that...

It's just so hard. He sounded like he didn't want to break up. And the only reason I was doing it was because I thought that's what he wanted. So I didn't want to break up either. I just wish I could...

I love you. I'm sorry you lost your friend. I need you to understand that I thought you wanted to break up. If I was allowed to take it back I would. Can I take it back? Can we talk about it? You...

I appreciate what you're trying to do but that really doesn't help. I don't believe in "meant to be". I wasn't over him in three months the first time anyway, what makes you say I will be now. I feel...

Long story, I'm sorry. But I am heart broken so I hope someone will listen.

My boyfriend and I broke up last night. We had been having problems, he was saying that he felt like he didn't know me...

that's the thing, he hasn't. He wanted us to get back together and was saying that he didn't want it to be like last time and that he didn't want it to fall apart after a month (ha). He was trying to...

It's almost like a one night stand where we both realized we like each other more than that. Like it was supposed to just be casual hanging out and it's morphed, and it seems like he wasn't ready for...

well 1. we weren't having sex yet, but were very close. we both have pretty high sex drives and were doing everything but
2. after talking to him about his exes, i don't think they're a problem. ...

Believe me, my confidence is still entirely intact. He's knows he can't mess with me like that, 'cause I always call him out on his crap. I told him when we got back together that this was his last...

GOOD GOD I WROTE A NOVEL

1st Breakup:
We're both 20/21, go to different colleges about 25 minutes away, both pretty broke, and as of lately have opposing schedules.
We dated for a month last...

And why the hell would I make a Bullshit excuse to a bunch of random strangers on the internet. seriously guys

Look, not that it matters, but I would have had sex with him last night were we prepared. We both agreed that we weren't comfortable with only one form of reliable BC and since it will be three weeks...

considering that: A. he and I both agreed we want to use both condoms and the pill
B. that my appointment is in three weeks, and my doctor last time told me to wait a week...

I'm going to answer both you and smackie here if that's alright.

Yes, we talked about this when we first got together. He's not a virgin, I am, and he wasn't thrilled about waiting, but I told...

insecurity, possibly.
but control, I don't get that from him at all. distrust of me? He has no reason. And jealous of what?

Well...no, I mean, I only gave the overview. He said that he had been lonely while he was breaking up with me, then after being apart a while he finally told me the real reasons for the break up,...

This is a complicated story, but I'll try to make it easier to understand. We're 20 and 21. I hope this is the right forum for this? If not I'm sorry
My boyfriend and I dated for a month, he...

He contacted me again tonight. We were joking around and he suddenly turned serious saying that he knows that he's the problem. He's realized over the last month that he has a habit of "always trying...

I'll try to keep it short as possible, but I want to make sure I get a couple points across. Sorry it's all "he said, then I said, blahblahblah". I can tell I'm probably over analyzing it, and sound...