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Well, thanks ALL for the opinions.

It was with the comfort of knowing him that I had no problem with having a one night only sexual encounter with this guy - he wasn't just a somebody I did not...

@carl1222:

Oh c'mon now! He invited himself over. We were obviously attracted to each other and so we had a very brief make out session at the bar (he needed to know I was interested but i had...

Jeez....you're now trolling through ALL my previous posts/my profile? Does it even matter?

Since it matters (erm, to you) - that obviously must have been a 1 or 2yrs ago. Yes, I am a fair bit more...

I ain't analysing. I was just curious as I do not want to hurt his feelings or my friendship with his bestmate. Thanks for your answer though. Yes indeed - its just sex.

A gradual build up is good. A gentle deep & slow thrust then gradually increasing the speed and going shallower as he does so is my ideal.

Foreplay should ALWAYS be a must too esp. if lustful...

So - I had a great 1 night stand with a friend I know through a mutual friend.

I'm not naive - I know this guy only wanted to **** me the moment he suggested to 'walk me home'...urgh. He had been...

@Mathias, thanks for the reassurance but this feels too much like a personal attack on me because he even (inappropriately) brought it up to my face in front of friends at a party but I walked away...

Totally agree with what he said!

21. We had agreed not to talk about what had happened as soon as it was over too and once I heard the things he'd said to my friends later on - I did email him to tell him to leave me alone.

Well you did not ask for one! He went into unecessary detail about our 'make out' session...and as I refsed to go all the way with him at the time, he told them I was such a prude. He tells anyone of...

@qwetz & @smackie9 - actally I wasn't getting a response in the other thread...so sorry it irritates you so very much!

@Mathias - no never directly. He talks smack about me to my friends instead.

..because he intentionally talks smack about me to MY friends, which this is hurtful. I don't care about him or his life and do not keep myelf informed on it so WHAT does HE care about how/what/where...

PS- he is in a long term stable relationship which he got into a weeks after cancelling on seeing me instead of just telling me he wasn't interested...

But recently he was talking to friends of mine about his rejection of me...and our 'make out session' that no one knew about. We havn't spoken in months before his run in with my friends (I...

....so ANY advice/your thoughts on this?

So I was persued by a guy but he was fresh out of a relationship so, though I liked him, I kept my distance - no touching/kissing occured after the one occasion it happened. I also turned him down...