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First off...I already have a boyfriend - so you don't have to worry about ever being mine. But IF you WERE...after 8 years? I mean - how after 8 YEARS of a relationship are you unsure if you want to...

no offense but he sounds like a total weirdo....secondly, 40 years old - and still a virgin? should of seen the red flags before you even got involved....you sound miserable - if that was me, i'd...

you're a total piece of sh*t....first off, who the hell waits almost 8 years to finally get married? If you don't even know if you want to marry her after ALL THIS TIME, then STOP stringing her along...

Honestly....you can't get mad. You never labeled the relationship, and for the most part - girls usually always wait for the guy to ask her out after a while of dating. If she's still keeping her...

So what do you do when your bf does that to you? I'm on day two of this and I just came home from work tonight and decided to just not talk. I hope that makes him feel uncomfortable now. I'm not...

I sometimes wonder why people do come here for advice. I think this will be my last visit. All anyone does is attack each other here....instead of giving out useful advice.

I hear ya. I like talking things out as well, but it seems i can never reach that point. My bf loves to shut down on me. His idea of a resolution is playing it silent or just acting like it never...

Yeah that's my plan. I know how to keep myself busy and stuff. I think he holds out with silence because he likes being chased it seems - i mean, everyone likes having power in a relationship and...

Yeah...I'll just wait it out, I can live with being ignored because I can play the game too. I guess that's what I'll do then. It is what it is....

Well when you live in a tiny sized apt....playing the quiet game between two adults is a little juvenile, no? That's why I said it doesn't go over well with me. If he feels the need to hold a grudge...

Great advice btw. I really appreciate it. I think I'll just wait for him. This is kind of a trend for him, and I was always the one TRYING to break the silence. I guess there's no real point. I'll...

LOL, not true at all actually. You're attacking me and you don't even know me. I can't even explain the argument. My bf was in the midst of looking for a job, and now that he finally found one (part...

This is a really stupid topic, but maybe some people can give me some insight on how to deal with this issue...

Long story short - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things all...

Don't feel so bad. I recently turned 29, and it took me all these years to finally meet the right guy to settle down with. I even had found through dating in my later 20's that guys our age still...

I had a few incidents where I was bashed on the board as well, don't take it personal LOL. The most you could do is just question her and ask her if she ever actually loved you or not. How long did u...

I think you just miss the idea of her - especially if she was your first real relationship. I can understand your grief and frustration with her though. I don't want to bore you with old war stories,...

Well it sounds like she has some issues to deal with on her own. Maybe she's just very immature to the idea of a real, committed relationship. Are you her first boyfriend or has she had others...

I always find it amusing when an overweight guy finds an overweight girl unattractive.....like, have you taken a look in the mirror lately? it goes both ways.....don't expect a runway model if you...

Question, how long have you been with him anyways? Just curious....

As for your situation, I can relate a bit. My current bf who i've been with for almost a year dated someone for a few years as...

You should ask her what she's trying to accomplish with you if she has a boyfriend already? What was the point?....I would straight up ask if she had any nice, SINGLE friends lol. What is the harm?...

no offense, but you sound desperate and pathetic - how about moving on from him and finding someone who will do the opposite of him and more? honestly....why would you even waste your time? .......

Just call her lol....she's your girlfriend, right? I think once you give yourself that label you should be communicating over the phone, no? It's only normal. You can't text and facebook your gf...

Definitely move on. Especially since you've had trust issues throughout your entire relationship. Look at all the time and effort you've put into him and checking in to see what he was up to - you...