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And the flakiness?

I don't know whether she was disappointed. She had just spilled the beans about her ex-boyfriend drama and how she was going to wait a bit and reconnect with herself before jumping into another...

Well, this seems to have plateaued/fizzled out or at least be put on hold :(

First "date"/meeting was for coffee where we talked for 2 hours.

Second date/actual first "date" was dinner at a...

Thanks! I figured the shopping was a good chance to test our tastes, but also about her nesting.

To be clear, the 5 hours included dinner. It was about an hour furniture shopping, then talking...

We did enjoy it :) We both have similar tastes... I showed her what I was looking at and she helped affirm the decision :) We spent about 5 hours shopping, having coffee, walking around, talking, and...

She said repeatedly "if I'm talking too much, just tell me." So I think it's a combination of being a friendly ear that listens along with her wanting to be open about any "baggage." She said, if...

Well, I'd say it went well :) She's getting over a fairly recent break up of her own with its own drama (break up months ago, try getting back together, didn't work out) so she noted that "time" was...

+1 Going on a second date shortly :)

That's my question too. Is she naturally just "open" with everyone, or did I do something that made her feel like she could be open? Or, does she feel like she's so messed up that she should put it...

I was on a coffee date with a girl a while ago. She was great, we had a good conversation for almost two hours. Her body language was open and she was happy, I made her smile and laugh a lot. When...

I’ve been single for a few months now. I’ve been using internet dating and had a few dates here and there, nothing serious though. I’ve basically done some searching/outreach and categorized those...

Yes... Why not?

I'm over a breakup and have been spending more time with friends and family. I've been friends with this girl for the past 10 years. She had a kid young, moved away, came back, moved away, and now...

Well, what great timing this has been!

I got a drunk call from her last night. This is one confused girl.

She repeated what she’s already said several times: that she was bored, she felt tied...

Well, I figure I should provide an update on what’s happened over these past 7 weeks. Her graduation day has come and passed. The last of her things will be moved out this weekend.

She’s...

Over 3 weeks have passed and I have my answer. We actually talked for 3 hours last night. It’s an incredibly weird feeling, because we were both civil and open and honest, but of course that she...

I understand guys, it's getting clearer every day...

First I offered to sit down with her and talk for a bit, whether that meant coffee or dinner or drinks or whatever (I left it up to her). She asked what we needed to talk about: if she had already...

She quit smoking marijuana and using drugs for the entire time we were together. The odd hypothetical question would come up like "if I was offered it at party..." or "if I did it after work would...

I told my counsellor the same as what I've said here: at first it was a break, then she was "pretty sure" it was a break up but wanted to see where she was at the end of June. She said we're not...

I said she asked for a break/break-up/a look at where things are at the end of June.

Like I said, I've had millions of questions running through my mind, and one of them was whether her feeling...

As I wrote in my other post, my fiancee and I are currently on the rocks over stress and losing the spark.

Over the past 2 weeks I've had a million questions and a million potential answers about...

We haven't texted for a week and seen each other in 2 weeks. I never did go out or do anything with her during Victoria Day like I wanted to (see above).

She texted me today about some financial...

Well, I'm doing my best to not contact her. It's been a week since I last saw her (last Sunday). On Friday I put out a feeler to see what her reaction was to us getting together for some coffee...

That "someone" being the counsellor, or financee?