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Thnx, hope you'll have a great holiday as well!

I know, I just don't get how people want to be screwing with your mind like that. I'd never want to try to hurt someone deliberately. He was def...

Well, accidentally bumped into him this morning. I'm moving sooner (not cause of him btw). Weird cause even now he still tried the whole (manipulative) flirting thing yesterday, and the goodbye was...

Oddly enough this makes me feel a bit better. Not that I'm glad you're still chewing on it (can I ask in what way it's still bothering you) but good to hear this from someone who can relate. Maybe I...

Same here. I did tell him he needs to back of several times, but it always leads to me turning into bitch mode. If he'd try to get my attention I'd burn him to the ground verbally. Cause I do know...

Too bad I can't see the thanks button anymore. It somehow vanished, but thank you Mona_B! That's what I thought, but what is getting a bit "cloudy" every now and then when he does stuff like this....

No, it merely explains that he's always had a wall around him. We we're friends for a long time before all this. I'm not 16, I know I can't fix anyone. It's not that I want to rescue him with my...

Can't help it. Regardless I still care for the guy. It's easy to say you're starting something new, get over it. It would be a whole lot easier if guys would just (even for once) talk. No bullshit,...

I agree with wakeup, awesome link. But, since I'm a woman there's always a but (we can't help it), I already live by pretty much all those rules. The first one does stick 'If someone wants you in...

Hi guys!

So, I'm back again. Mental stability are def not the words I'd use to describe 2011 ;)
Well, last time I mentioned I (insert vomit) declared my love to this guy I know. Which he replied...

Strike the frustrating. Might be a spunky girl, but think I let this one get too close. Pathetic part here is I'm actually listening to Everybody hurts while sobbing away. Someone call Dr Phil. Think...

I know, but he knows I'm dominant. I've known the guy for more then three years. Actually he's the male version of me. A little better even (I'll slap myself for saying that later ;)), since he's...

I'm absolutely sure I didn't say anything during the deep chats. He initiated the talk that followed. Actually asked for another talk right after that one as well. Don't think he would do that if I...

I wish. In that case I would just wait and be patient. He's avoiding the whole let's give it a try situation. Don't think it's because he's insecure, just not interested. So, I did make a move. Laid...

Well, seems like I wasn't completely out of the picture. Still got a no go. Not in those words, but got a nice politician's answer. I was basically awesome according to him, but since he didn't...

I'm taking a sabbatical from men. One year, cold turkey. On one hand this guy I know is constantly around trying to get my attention. We get along great. Same sence of humour, we tease, we joke, we...

We'll see. Hope I don't forget I told him I needed help with a presentation. Don't really need help. Needed to get him alone, so my motivation wasn't pure/saintlike to begin with :)
Ah, it's meant...

It's my crappy English, not you're fault. Should've said it differently. Nah, not agressively honest. Don't mind people criticising me either. I'm not perfect. Besides, being perfect/perfectly normal...

How come? Didn't mean I am smart (not dumb either), I meant something different with outsmarting them. Men like to test you to see how far they can go. Wether it's sexual comments that are meant to...

Basically both of you are encouraging me to have sex with him straight away j/k. Actually good point about getting that out of the way. Let's see how it goes. I'll be as bold and direct as I can...

Had the exact same thing a while ago, different guy don't worry ;) Enjoy it, but be sure he's not attached before you go googoo. It's easy for him not to mention it when you're alone. Might explain...

Yes, I am. Tried the other approach, not just with him but in general, it made me feel miserable. It's not me. It's not about control, although I have to admit I kind of enjoy the part when someone...

Amen to that! That's what I always say. It's either yes/no. Really bad to admit this, but I've always hated it when a guy tells me he's had a crush on me since God knows when. Why the hell wait?...

My bad. Meant bringing up the subject about wanting more than being friends. Okay, so straight forward it is. It's weird to hear guys like the straight forward approach though. Always figured most...

I agree. It's not a bad thing if it's mutual, but I'm not going for a one time fling. Want this one to be more than that. Don't want to give out the wrong signals either, than again don't want him to...

Thanks! No, wasn't planning on asking him if he's a player. A bit confused about the be submissive/don't be submissive part though. Not really the submissive type. Besides he seems to enjoy the fact...