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I will have to look at this when I get home - Sorry, not a jobless teenage zombie, just have time here and there at work to check things and respond - Can't really focus on reading.

Thanks for all the advise (really) - it makes my decision to end my "friendship" with this girl easier to accept. I had a feeling along that she only wanted my attention - even asked her, but of...

No, you know what Indi? It's not OK! It is complete BS! That is the EXACT sh*t I am talking about when women say one thing but mean the exact opposite. You say you have little to no interest in...

okie dokie.

Maybe later. I need to lay off and give her space right now or I'll lose her forever. Thanks for the thought though.

Sorry, just saw this post. Nope, she is definitely NOT playing hard to get. I am now making her uncomfortable and since all I want to do is make her happy, I've advised her to simply ignore me and...

Indi - I' love to have a personal conversation with you outside of this forum and I will try to answer all your questions. I want this thread to stay focused on the question - which doesn't even...

Indi, I take FULL responsibility for this, I really do. But my own emotions back then blinded me. I loved my high school sweetheart do death - time physically stopped the first time I saw her. And...

Well, I have now I have no choice but to let go. And I was NOT forcing anything. I fell in love with this girl because I can talk to her - about anything and everything and she too could and did...

Well, it doesn't matter anyway. it seems my stupid ass wife sent my love interest an email and she is out of my life for good now. Guess it really is for the best.

I have to say that dopplemakemelol's words, as harsh as they were, ring loud and clear to me - she's leading me on and she has no feelings for me. said hi to her, and nothing else. Probably say bye...

[QUOTE=bloodtippedrose;763127]Why can't more guys come to this simple realization?QUOTE]

You've probably heard this a million times from other guys, but I am not like every other guy out there -...

A lot, seriously.


I don't get it, I really don't, so I must be the dumest person on the planet.


Why would she string me along? Do ALL women string guys along? Is it part of their game? ...

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You underestimate my desire to obtain this girl! I did just like HeartisAching suggested and did not acknowledge her feelings or ask her how she was...

i cannot agree more!!!! Halleluiah!!!!!

Of course this "building trust" does not work if you are TRYING to get a girl. Building trust just lands you on the friend ladder and you then become a "big brother."

Excellent, will do. Do I wait for her to say hi or good morning or do I say good morning? Do I say goodbye when I leave?

Since I work with this girl and see her every day and have to talk to her for work related things, do I even say hi to her in the morning when she comes in or bye when I leave (Ido leave before she...

WHY???? Why do we have to play these stupid mind games? Why do I have to ignore her and make her jealous and pretend she means nothing to me? I found this ebook that I'm gonna buy (Escape The...

Thanks for the info. Again, my co-worker and I had a real discussion today about all this crap and she again said she has no romantic feelings for and she FINALLY said we could part ways (leaving...

I put claims in quotes because there are many, many times that her actions speak louder than her words. She is absolutely able to have feelings I don't like, and I have COMPLETE trust in her. What...

So I finally found the time to research this ladder theory some, and I cam across this:

"Other times, the guy becomes her confidant about general “boy issues.” This is a huge mistake, as the guy...

Well, crap. Thanks. Yeah, she never calls or emails and has texted me like 3 times (all bad news), and hardly ever initiates the chat at work any more. But when I don't talk to her for a while, she...

So for those of you who do not know me, I'm majorly in love a a girl that "claims" she has no feelings for me and never will. We've been talking very deeply and personally for about a year, even...

Thanks. The more I read and hear about what love is and what being in love is, the more I think I never loved my wife and it makes me feel the decision to divorce is the right one. Just really mad...