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"Guys can turn abusive (not wife beater) to a certain degree if the drama queen GF keeps pushing their button"

Oh, you are justifying someone who is abusive? Giving them excuses by calling me a...

That's a good question since he stalks me everywhere I go online. I feel trapped with him always being in my life.

I am just angry and frustrated over it.

Thing is, the apology is not accepted by me. I don't like how I was treated, and he has done nothing to deserve being on good terms with me.

A few days ago, he was mean as ever, made me very angry when we had a confrontation, then the next few days, he's agreed with things I've said and seems to want to get along, he sent me a happy...

I have been in the process of getting over my ex since last year. At this point I couldn't go back to him even if I wanted to, I'm that disgusted by him.

I realize now the colossal mistakes I've...

Thank you all for the advice, I think I really do just need someone, or something new to focus on..and if it's a "someone" a person that's a lot healthier..if I ever do find him out there. :(

I've posted before that my ex is an abuse, creep. I feel no more romantic feeling, there's too much hurt and anger for me to really let myself feel that for him anymore. Even so, I know deep down, I...

It's not been that clear cut between us, it's so long and complicated but he was in a relationship with a girl that was abusive and awful to him, she broke his heart, I've been in the same way with a...

I don't know what to do.. He's someone I've known for about 2 years. He's a nice guy, and we keep in touch daily, and started texting too. and it's fine. I can be flirty with him in a joking way. but...

He always makes clear that he thinks internet relationships are "pointless", "long distance doesn't work", "never gonna meet etc". When asked upfront how he feels about long distance/online...

Thank you, I appreciate your response..it puts some things into perspective.

My medication does work in ridding of some of the anxiety, but it doesn't completely, that's how bad it is right now.

I know that what I'm going through is still part of some grieving process,...

I did therapy once last year, It didn't help that much. but I don't really have the money to afford more of it.

If it comes down to losing hopes and dreams just in itself (which I know is a huge...

I know I want to move on from my ex. That's something I wasn't quite ready to do even 3 months ago, but now I am cause I simply don't want to hurt anymore.

I've cut off contact with him, he's been...

[QUOTE=VincenzoG91;900996] "The fact that you are putting so much effort into an online relationship is a pretty strong indication that you were never actually going to meet him in the real world."
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I do think I need to hear that he's not going to change.. somewhere in the back of my head I guess I did think that he would suddenly feel bad for everything he's done to me, maybe part of me has...

Thanks for a direct answer to my question, that is what I was looking for. The reason I ask here is in part to avoid that forum.. Honestly, the first answer above by Basil, kind of sounded like...

I somehow lost my other response. Anyway, it's quite possible to fall in love online, it's happened to me twice, and it can easily happen to anyone. No one can understand it being possible til it...

Another non-answer, thanks.

fyi, you can meet cheating jerks who are not genuine offline too. and anyway, it's not an issue of me being stuck on him romantically at this point, as I said, I am...

HOW are you answering my original question exactly? Listen, I know quite well what you think about online relationships, and I know very well about online fakers, I happen to have a good sense of who...

Because it's online makes it no less of a problem, or a situation. So for that same reason should I not take your opinion seriously since we are not face to face?

I'm just looking for some...

so I was involved with a guy online, someone I met at a forum, in any case, we got involved romantically. He broke my heart, had no intention of ever meeting me in person, and he had a lot of other...

thanks very much guys, I appreciate the answers. I will look at the book too.

I think you're right about that.. :(

I just wanna feel better without him now, and I worry I can't.

and anxiety over a guy who never even made me THAT happy to begin with. Even in the "best" of times, he was still a jerk to me, and I still felt upset about other girls he flirted with, I never...