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thank you for answering. i sent him a note just now and am waiting for a response. was a bit scared to say everything just yet so just said
i find it difficult he is still open to see other women...

hi
i started a FWB with a nice guy 9 months ago, we had been friends for 3 months before that. we were both just out of serious relationships and for the first few months it was fun and easy and a...

actually wake up you answered whether i should react to his friendly contacts when you said this -
Common sense clearly shows that you should not keep up casual conversation with him until you can...

ps. he just sent me this message - i thought he would wait a few weeks before sending me a message like this.
message : I know that your right about everything, and still I feel a little sad this...

heartisaching - no he made it clear many times (verbally) that he did not want me for a serious girlfriend and that he did not want an exclusive relationship

Actually i really do have to thank you wakeup. honestly, it was directly you that made me gets the guts to do it. And trust me its been about a month of anguish and bullshit. My first message to him...

very harsh wakeup, but your post all the same affected me in a positive way.

the update is that we spoke on the phone this morning, i told him i deleted him from facebook because i was a bit...

ps are you a troll? was a bit harsh don't you think?? i am quite a fragile person and that was pretty hurtful

wakeup - i dont sleep with anyone. i never have one night stands or casual sex. it is the first time something has been so unclear. ok so i mess up with him, i feel weak when it comes to him. to be...

dated a guy for 5 months. fell in love with him. he wasnt exclusive i was. he propositioned a friend of mine. I reacted hugely and avoided him for months, despite his texting and calling.

we made...

so what do i do ? turn off my feelings and tell him i cant be friends? meet him 2mo night and telling him then
or just right now by message? take him off facebook (its a bit painful watching him...

basically the first 5 months at least he had to make an effort to be in a good 'not exclusive dating' situation with me (he was great lots of kindness, attention and sweetness)

but now because we...

also the first 5 months before our fight there was a lot of romantic texts etc too. he told me he had big feelings for me. things like that. i think he genuinly was into me.
but during the 2 months...

So i dated this guy not exclusively for 5 months. We had a fight and stopped talking for 2 months. He was in the wrong and sent me many many texts and calls etc. After 2 months we made up as friends....

heartisaching - in my post the other day when i gave all the situation for advice, the advice
from everyone was dont send him a message or tell him anything - just dissapear

thats the thing i havent communicated to him how i feel because before i was going to do it,
he made it kind of clear that all he wanted from me is friendship and sex during a chat over
coffee
...

PS In the last two days i havent started contact. all contact has been started by him. (in fact in all the 6 months mostly by him) but sometimes I get weak and want to contact him. I get caught up in...

I am going to summarise the problem because i posted the entire story a few days ago here and got great advice which i am following.

I have had a FWB since the start of the year, 6 months now. He...

hmm so annoying today he sent me a text asking me out for a drink. then he called and i didnt answer. i replied (after a couple of hours) by text that i was somewhere else and to have fun.

i...

your right you guys and i thank you so much. you were really helpful and i am just going to stop all contact.

should i delete him from facebook? his posts are killing me (out having fun, nothing posted on my wall)

quertz - so why all the instigated texts about his work at the beginning of the week ? and the romantic text middle of the night wednesday? why things like this? at the coffee he also said when his...

do i ask him if he was trying to tell me he didnt want to see me?

but wait sorry but so does it seem to every guy here that
''i have so much going on right now with night projects etc'' means i dont want to see you??
because for me for a moment i was thinking he...

So I think my guy FWB wants it to be over because he has hinted lately how busy is going to be etc.
I have strong feelings for him and it's hard right now.

The situation at the moment is this:...