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No...there's no problem when he is around. It's not that I'm uncomfortable with the idea of phone sex, it's that I often don't feel up to doing it when he's not here. It's like I subconsciously...

Hm...maybe I didn't explain right. He is respectful. He's told me that his first time was a waste and he doesn't want that for me, that he would never push me into anything and wants it to be when...

There are plenty of medical reasons people go on birth control. In my case, I had highly irregular periods (like, skipping months at a time) that were really painful. Since going on birth control...

My boyfriend and I are long distance. When he is here, everything is fine. I'm still a virgin and trying not to rush things, but we fool around a lot and I'm able to get him off. I haven't been able...

I'm in the same boat. My problem is I want my family to meet him before they find out how we met. I'm really afraid of them being judgmental. I'm also kind of ashamed of telling my friends too. It's...

I was going to say he sounds really immature. That is probably mixed in with nerves. People do and say dumb shit when they are nervous. I find the anal thing really strange too.



It does kind...

Sometimes I find that my guy doesn't find the details of his life interesting. I try to remind him that I'm interested in every little thing. I know that he won't tell me every little thing, but I...

Can you elaborate on why it matters to you so much? It would help us understand your concern a lot more, I think.

As a nondrinker, I don't have a problem with people drinking, but I can see how it...

That's an idea I hadn't thought of. But we can't do that all night, it's cold. lol

I disagree with the poster above. Feelings can develop over the internet, and people can sometimes form a very close, intimate emotional relationship. Feelings aren't fake just because you haven't...

Watching movies can be fun to do together. Do you have netflix or have access to anything online? Sync both movies together and chat online or on the phone while watching. Send letters when you're...

I'm under 21 and don't drink, neither of us like parties all that much, and he doesn't want to do anything "crazy." I live in Washington DC. I was hoping to do dinner out, then maybe see fireworks,...

Do you have to be rude? Anyway, I mentioned in my original post that we have met multiple times, and have plans to meet in a few weeks.

thanks for the advice everyone :)

I appreciate your advice, but I did not deliberately seek out a LDR. I had no feelings for him until he told me he had feelings for me, and even after that it took me a really long time (months) to...

We've met twice, both for four days, and he's spending a week here at the end of this month. I wouldn't be considering this otherwise.



I think what people tend to do when they judge these...

So a quick summary: There's a guy I've been friends with for the past couple years. We live a plane ride away and have been talking a lot more since he told me he had feelings for me when he visited...

I do start slowly with personal details, but it's difficult because the friends I share this with I've known a long time so they expect me to share just about everything with them. It's hard to tell...

Panic attacks are absolutely overwhelming. While you can have a small one or a strong one, it's usually characterized by hyperventilation, sometimes tunnel vision, and usually feels like you're...

I have a hard time talking about myself to friends. I don't usually have a hard time telling people what I'm doing or like my weekend plans or whatever, but anything on a more personal level (e.g....

I understand, and that's fine. I don't think he's done anything wrong now or plans to do anything wrong....but then again I don't think most people plan on cheating and wrecking their relationship....

I can't seem to find any ultra-thin ones that aren't lubricated.

Maybe, but we are long distance and he doesn't have health insurance so I can't see him doing that while he's visiting.

The thing is I know he isn't with any other girls. I am not suspicious of...

That's always how I sort of thought about it too. I guess since this is new to me I'm just nervous he'll be like "You think I have something?"

I'll look into the thinner condoms...thanks! :)

Thanks.

I kind of figured he wouldn't be thrilled about it. Any tips on how to approach him about it? I was thinking flavored condoms might be fun but I also don't know if they'd be too...