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    I don't exactly understand. You said you don't...

    I don't exactly understand. You said you don't like him in the same way he likes you, so do you want to continue the friendship or do you want to start a relationship with the guy but are scared of...
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    I think if you feel like something might be...

    I think if you feel like something might be there, then you need to tell him. Even if you are only dating him, you still have an opportunity to make this work if he also feels something too.
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    If he's shy, then maybe he's not sure about how...

    If he's shy, then maybe he's not sure about how soon is too soon to call. Maybe give him a call instead and ask him directly if he wants to go out on a date.
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    If he's jealous of your pet cat and of your...

    If he's jealous of your pet cat and of your siblings, that's not a good sign at all. You could remind him that you're choosing to be with him and therefore you love him in the most special way, but...
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    Give it some space then, think about what you...

    Give it some space then, think about what you really want. If he isn't sure, then maybe that's the indicator though.
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    That's up to you to find out. If you're starting...

    That's up to you to find out. If you're starting to develop feelings for him, I would recommend that you just flat out ask him if there's something there. A spark, a like, feelings, anything?
  7. Good luck! Update us to let us know how it goes!

    Good luck! Update us to let us know how it goes!
  8. I personally wouldn't do so, I like to have a...

    I personally wouldn't do so, I like to have a sense of security in the future.

    If you're able to put that behind and enjoy the nice memories for the time being, then why not do so? If you're...
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    Maybe because he's lonely, he's excited to share...

    Maybe because he's lonely, he's excited to share his life with someone who listens. It also sounds like he was hurt in the past so thinks a relationship wouldn't be a good idea.

    He might be...
  10. I think from what I'm getting out of this, she...

    I think from what I'm getting out of this, she could want something else but she knows that you date around? Maybe if you have something going with this girl, then it's worth committing to her and...
  11. Is it that bad to be someone's friend before you...

    Is it that bad to be someone's friend before you date them? I was friends with my girlfriend before becoming her boyfriend. It's dangerous from your experience with it but one bad experience doesn't...
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    This is great advice, OP. You should listen to...

    This is great advice, OP. You should listen to it.

    It's not fair to yourself or to her if you won't settle for just being friends in the long run and letting go of the feelings you have for her.
  13. Speaking as someone who has chronic on/off...

    Speaking as someone who has chronic on/off depression, sometimes... you just can't do anything at all. You end up regretting everything you have ever done at all, I guess this includes being physical...
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    Stop texting him, it will only get worse if you...

    Stop texting him, it will only get worse if you continue.
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    You should tell him in my opinion. If you feel...

    You should tell him in my opinion. If you feel that you're ready, then you should tell him that you want to move the relationship forward because you feel it's time. It's just a good idea to know...
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    I know it will be hard, but just stop. Force...

    I know it will be hard, but just stop. Force yourself to forget about this guy. Maybe go on dates with other people. Maybe cut contact if the friendship with the guy is just hurting you in the long...
  17. He loves you, but has different ways of showing...

    He loves you, but has different ways of showing it. It doesn't have to be verbal. Some people are just bad at expressing it that way but can do so in other ways. If you love him, then tell him you...
  18. Thread: Cont. :$

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    I'm in agreement with the others. We aren't...

    I'm in agreement with the others. We aren't getting the details out of the post...
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    Tell her how you feel and make sure she's aware...

    Tell her how you feel and make sure she's aware of that. Set up boundaries if you have to and put a stop to it if you need to. If you settle on having a friendship with someone you have deep feelings...
  20. Focus on improving yourself, go to the meetings,...

    Focus on improving yourself, go to the meetings, do everything you can to make yourself strong and sober. Get in control and if she's withholding you from seeing your child, then get help from other...
  21. Thread: Aries1

    by benfletcher82
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    Hey, even if it helps to rant about it, it's...

    Hey, even if it helps to rant about it, it's still helping you!
  22. If I were in your position, I'd be uncomfortable...

    If I were in your position, I'd be uncomfortable too. I would maybe ask him to tell his friend to calm down with the posts because it makes you, the girlfriend, uncomfortable. It should be a...
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    Maybe try marriage counselling? It's completely...

    Maybe try marriage counselling? It's completely reasonable for you to be upset, sexual compatibility including your sex drive can either make relationships or break them.

    If he's not giving his...
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    Hi, Sorry about your bad experiences with...

    Hi,

    Sorry about your bad experiences with people, they can be truly awful.

    I will agree that it wasn't the best decision to take the guy up on his offer, but we all make bad decisions here and...
  25. Thread: Jealous

    by benfletcher82
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    Maybe it's for the best if you distance yourself...

    Maybe it's for the best if you distance yourself from her then (not follow her as much on social media, talk to her less, etc), while you're still young and have to follow your parents rules. It...
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