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That's also the problem, she always assumes the things she says are interpreted correctly, and gets mad when they're not because she said it right, the other party must not be listening. Her effort...

Reaching out is often testing water. It's all based on your intuition. You've dated for a time, and should know about each other how you feel. If you don't, test the water, text something like hey...

Trust, support and respect, but the ^ thing was a bit misleading, so I was trying to confirm your point.
We actually had all those. Only later on these things turned into well-meant intentions,...

What are you pointing at when you say These^?

Overanxious, I hear you man, that's pretty much what happened to us. But it wasn't like she wanted fawning, she just used communication I didn't understand, or hints and stuff. Our communication was...

I've never had such a respectful break-up so far. I just want to say that this whole thing made me love and respect you more. Right now I just want to hug you and show you that I'm a better person...

It was an issue, she just payed less attention to it because she had happy rainbow vision on :p but the vision faded, and the problems weren't ignored anymore.

It's not that our feelings died out, it got less passionate, but it didn't leave or anything. Point is, should I stick to the plan or just leave it?

Holy shit, that sounds awful. Leave this asshole, he doesn't deserve you.

we weren't, she was here a few days a week. But I think this will take the pressure off a bit, because we were getting crazy from each other indeed

That wasn't the question, I'm improving the skills as we speak. and she gave me alot of tips on how to do so, and what she wanted from me "all this time". Question is whether I'm just fooling myself...

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That wasn't the question. I said I'm working on these skills, and she gave me a whole lot of tips about how she wanted to be approached, and also told me what she wanted "all this time"....

We were fighting about very silly stuff, like who should get the trash out or who left the window open, which was mostly the last drop in the bucket of neglect.
She switched lifestyles, first she...

Hello all

I've just had a very weird break-up and I'd like your advice.
We've been together for 1.5 years, and we were growing apart. That brought a vicious circle of irritation, me paying less...