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So, yesterday she came back, things were good. We chatted a bit, teased her, she still touches me a lot especially on my shoulder and arm, I love it. She wanted me to feel her super awesome muscles...

Oh, I definitely have done that too. Possibly not as often, but I just meant yesterday night, if it made sense to go then. It was late.. it was for a massage.

Perhaps I'm just fearful of sex....

So, a good deal has happened since, and I just wanted some advice on where to go from here.. I recognize though, my issue really is just being too passive.

Okay so this is what happened:.

She...

Yeah, unfortunately we live in a world where humans do push each other. Dunno why we can't just chill out and get along, and not test each other constantly.. but that's the reality.

What if carpet...

Ya see, the problem for me is taking the initiative. I'm not a pushover. I do what I want when I want, I'm not jealous, etc.. I like the girl, I want her, and that's it. However, I can't freaking...

Well, asking them what they want to do isn't bad, but the rest I can see being unattractive.

If a girl invited me to the movies, I'd ask what movie she wanted to see. If we could agree on a movie we both liked, why the hell would I say no?

Lol.

Saying you'll do something with her that...

It depends on the age of the girl, mostly. Young girls tend to be, err, confused I guess. They want excitement and that's understandable, but look for it in the wrong areas. It's a shame, it really...

I'd said the person is more important than sex, but I'm blessed with a low sex drive. Things are clearer for me. The practical (person) is more important than sex. You can still be intimate with him,...

This upsets me and pisses me off greatly. Maybe some people want to be close with their partner and care for them, but beyond the level of friendship, without sex?

Meh, personally sex isn't that big a deal to me. Besides, he can always use toys and try out other kinky ways to please you, if it's that important for you. Talk to him about it.

Am I the only one that finds oral sex revolting?



This makes me very sad. :S

The hell am I to do if I hate it but everyone wants it?

You realize it after the fact though, right? So can't you learn from that? I don't know, I can get a bit annoyed when girls say stuff just to test us. For the record, I do say no when it's in my best...

She's so sweet. Just the general feeling you get around her, I'm so, calmed down.

Cooked up some home made soup tonight, she had three bowls. Had fun building little house of cards then trying to...

However, what if you're nice to everyone, simply because you enjoy being nice to everyone?

There's being nice, and there's being a pushover. People seem to think they are one in the same for some...

Here's an idea, don't try stupid shit?

Well, some people have low libido's. It's not something they fake, it's an actual physical problem. Although some people don't consider it a problem.

Sex is important to most people, but honestly...

Well, level with yourself here. Are you happy? If sex is important to you, than it's an issue. I think girls should initiate it too, but if it's always you doing it that's not very fair. Sometimes,...

It's 243$ a month + utilities, which amount next to nothing during the summer. The house is so well-insulated that we don't even use an AC and it's still cool inside.

Keep in mind, that the...

Do keep in mind not everyone has a very long tongue. I have a small one, I can barely stick it out of my own mouth. It comes out maybe an inch or so.

I know this gets asked a lot, but read on and understand my need to be certain here.

So I'm living in a huge 6 bedroom 2 bathroom house now, on the west side of Montreal. Small sector, but...