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Thanks for the responses.

The reason why I'm being so passive is because he was pretty adamnant about how it "wasn't possible" for us just a few months ago, so I thought I'd back off a bit (plus,...

Thanks so much for your response!

Would it be better if I try to be a friend first? It SEEMS like he's open sometimes, but I would say this is fleeting and fairly inconsistent.
Would it work...

Me and this guy go a few years back. He was interested first.

But due to a mixture of my inexperience, not knowing what I want, and extreme introversion, I had this push-pull thing going on with...

Ha, I had the same problem. In your situation, my gut tells me he's hiding something. If he's just not the type to bother with it, he would just say so, but ACTIVELY avoiding the subject is fishy...

So what's the best way for a girl to make a move?

Oh, and he never rejected it. It was just pending. For days. I've seen him online so thought he wasn't gonna add me, so took back the request already.

I think you shoudl have moved on when she blatantly said you were too young for her.

Then why does he still hang around?

Oh, and the story isn't that simple, there was another girl involved which confused things. At one time, I thought he liked her so I didn't do anything even...

Long story short:

I have almost no love experience. I'm really interested in this guy, and he was as well. But due to my inexperience, I came off really hot-and-cold like I'm deliberately...