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Agree with Jas_mine. Gettin' nothing here as well. I think it also depends if this convo was in person, or over some sort of social media or text or what.

I guess that may be true. At some point I might be flattered by a poem or song or something written for me. But I think it would have to include humor for me to appreciate it as I should. Humor for...

Personally, I hate poetry, and if I was attracted to a guy and he gave me a sweet poem about me, I THINK I would smile and say thanks but inside lose some attraction. It just seems pretty feminine...

Believe me xxazurexx, the length is fine. I want the length. I wasn't saying I didn't want to accept anyone's advice here, or that anyone was being harsh - I was just saying that some justification...

Ok. I respect that, and you're definitely more confident than me. But can you explain why? ( I ask 'why' a lot. I like things to be backed-up.)

As the daughter and ex-girlfriend of an alcoholic, if you're going to stick around, be prepared to be experience a lot of ... problems. It doesn't sound like his alcoholism problems are in the past....

You're very supportive in all your replies, aren't you? :)

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No, it's women who get their sense of connection and intimacy through sex. Men can have sex without any emotional engagement at all. He's masturbating on top of...

I get what you're saying, but you misunderstood a few things. He DIDN'T ask for space. Not at all. I asked him how he felt about me, and he said he was having doubts. I asked if I should go home that...

Has anyone ever been on a “break” and seen positive results? And by positive I mean the two of you got back together?

2 weeks ago my guy said he was having doubts and unsure about us. Since then I...

I agree with Gigabitch. If he put it on a public wall, I don't think it's that bad. But I can understand how you'd be hurt, especially by the 'tempting' comment.

My boyfriend doesn't even have a...

Can I possibly add plucking your eyebrows to hell to this? :) I HATE this look on girls. It's ridiculous, and I associate it with high-fashion, high-maintenance drama queens because the only people I...

I've learned recently to trust my gut! For a month I felt like something was wrong, something was off, but I couldn't figure it out. Then my bf started becoming more and more distant until finally I...

Luckily this particular guy would only have sex with the lights off, so I didn't have to keep a straight face for long :)

I think part of the turn off for me is that shaving down there is a feminine thing. And hair on men is a manly thing. It seems closed-minded of me to say that, and to say that I prefer masculine men,...

I also hate brushing guys off. It makes me feel guilty, and one of my personality problems is that i'm plagued with guilt. My suggestion for when you're at a club and a guy goes for a kiss is to pull...

Personally, I like a smooth-chested guy, or a hairy-chested guy. It comes down to the guy. It's problematic sometimes if there's too much pubic hair - makes going down a bit more difficult, and can...

I agree with Sehvral above. And even though I'm not a guy, so I can't spell out what is considered 'girlfriend material', I will say that I think your frame of mind is a bit too narrow?

What I'm...

You might be losing all your girls to friendships because you're thinking that to get close to a girl you should become her friend. It might help if you stood farther away, and instead of being...

We only see each other on weekends, and like one weeknight a week. But we usually have sex multiple times, especially on the weekends - averaging 5 times between Friday night and Sunday night. I'm...

OK, here's one:

I posted about a week ago that my boyfriend said he's 'unsure' about us. He hasn't mentioned it since, but seems to have been making more of an effort or something, I don't know.
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Wow. If 3 different girls you've dated have put you in that situation and all reacted the same, you may need to re-evaluate your taste in women >.< I would never ask that question.

Anyway, my...

Is this normal then, for guys to have a period where they're "unsure"?

From the way he's interacted with me over the last few days, he seems like he does love me - cornering me for make-outs,...

Thanks for all your input guys! I've taken it all in, and put in against his personality/our history. I was thinking of giving him space, but my intuition says a complete cut-off is out. I was going...

I'm in my early 20s and he's in his mid-20s. We've both finished post-grad.

I don't really think I can talk to him about it right now. I asked him last night why he feels this way and he said he...