I get what you're saying, but you misunderstood a few things. He DIDN'T ask for space. Not at all. I asked him how he felt about me, and he said he was having doubts. I asked if I should go home that night and he said no. I have been giving him space of my own accord, and he's been asking ME to do things.
And I haven't texted him once since we had this convo unless he texted me first. And even then my texts are simple and undemanding. I haven't asked him to hang out with me at all. When he asks me to hang out, like when he wanted to help me with my taxes, and when he asked me to come play soccer with him, and go for a walk because the weather was actually nice. So you've got the wrong situation completely.
I understand the criticism of the sex thing. But I would really like to get men's opinion on this. I've read up on gender psychology and it was in one of my uni classes. Gigabitch says men don't get any sense of intimacy and connection from sex, and I respect her opinion, but I'd appreciate a male perspective on this as well.
You say he's taking advantage of me and using me. It's easy for a girl to say "I'm being used as a sex object" because we often feel like that, and fear it, even when we're in a good place in our relationships. But it may not be the case. He and I don't just have sex, we do things together, go out, cuddle, spend the night together, etc. So I'm still unsure what I should be doing in this respect.
But I understand that I'm making life easy for him and hard for me by keeping this up. Which is why I've been thinking about an official break. HE has NOT asked for one. I am just wondering if I should ask for one, in order to give him a situation in which he has to make a decision.
So back to my original question: Has anyone been on a successful 'break'?
Has it been successful or just pushed people away?