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I once saw a documenatry wherein they compared brain MRIs of people with a broken leg and those with emotionally broken hearts. The were virtually identical. The brain feels a broken heart just the...

It is a beautiful fall evening. I am alone and typing this because I am not tall. I am 5'9".

I have a good degree, authored patents, climbed mountains, ride sport bikes, artistic, speak 5...

Gotta say, I like your style.

Just a non-scientific survey. Ladies please be honest.

PROS: Guy is very handsome, sexy, confident and charming. He has money, experience and is worldly. He is very attentive and affectionate.
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Ok, thanks everyone for your advice. It has helped al lot. I will stop beyotching now, canvas Star Trek convetions and see what happens. To HeartIsAching, I'm glad it no longer is.

Cheers!

Yea, I have heard these theories before. They make sense and probably are true, but that means there are very, very few well adjusted, confident women. (Obviously, few well adjusted men as well.) I...

YC, I honestly am still confused about what to do. The exact same thing happened to me. Girl at work, everthing going great then she asked my height right out of the blue. After I told her she...

No, no. Sorry, just a bit enthusiastic. The fact that my competition was such a loser, made be start looking at the whole things as, "But, I'm A, B and C and he is D, E and F. WTF? Why dosen't she...

Holy @#!% Eurika!! Thank you so much. I think you are right this is EXACTLY my problem or at least the bulk of it.

This post is due to a really hurtful experience regarding this subject. I had to...

I think smakie9 has a very good point. A very good point. I know I do project a defeatest attitude, whether justified or not. Maybe you do too.

I mean look at the guys who are short and do well:...

I guess this is more of a rant, but I know this is going to hit a nerve with many guys.

Did you know only 13% of US men are 6ft or taller?

I am 5'9" 160 lbs. I work out a lot and am ripped. I...

You're right. There are some things that are odd here.

1) 3 years and toss it all after buying a house because you're bored? He dosen't even want to talk about it and is annoyed by your calling...

Good God man!

Here's some real good advice, use a condem!!! It's a lot harder to forget someone when they leave a permanent memento behind.

Girls, maybe boys too, just never seen it from that...

Have to agree with Wakeup and Michelle23.

You sound like a very smart, mature, caring girl. Don't waste all that on an idiot. Maybe you are making excuses for others because because you are a kind...

good point!

It dosen't matter that your friend has a gf or that he is your friend. In matters of love, people surprizingly break boundaries all the time. That is to say don't be too surprized if he ended up...

thanks and I'm convinced you're all correct. thanks for reading.

It's funny once she told me I was a 'good guy' like it was a compliment. Then she shags a married player, gets hurt and comes back...

A girl at work declined my interest because I was too short (5'9" she is 5'7"). She did it a pretty callus and inconsiderate way.

Then she hooked up with one of the shipping guys (5'10") who is a...

That so sucks, but it does explain a lot. It is sad she has so much potential.

Never thought of it like that. She does have a history of this - called off an engagment because the guy wanted to dump his credit card debt on her, 3 year old child from a pervious relationship and...

Tried and failed.

My concern is two-fold:

1) I liked her so it is personal.

2) I don't like seeing crap rule the day. I like a nice world in general where people at least try to respect...

Because he has hurt numerous people with his actions. His wife, this girl, other people at work. However, even after hurting this girl (I know she was REALLY hurt), she eventually returned to him and...

A girl I know hooked up with a married major leaque db - cheats on his wife and two daughters (cragislist, happy ending massages and gang-bang orgies), gambles, drinks heavily and smokes. He lies to...

Thanks, to all. Your advice does help loads!

No. I am not venting. And Michelle23 is right, it is hard to get over someone sometimes even if you want to. I obviously had a thing for this girl and...

A girl I originally thought was kind and compasionate rejected interest on my part by making short jokes and saying I couldn't help the way I was born. She then hooked up with a married player who...