A girl I know hooked up with a married major leaque db - cheats on his wife and two daughters (cragislist, happy ending massages and gang-bang orgies), gambles, drinks heavily and smokes. He lies to his wife about all this while braiging to coworkers. He has no education or job skills. He is 34 and has a paper route. He likes to make fun of the weaknesses of others to make himself look better. He acts and thinks like he is in 7th grade with a mild mean streak. He is average looks and completely out of shape. Did I mention he shoots his dogs with a BB gun for fun?
He has no hobbies or interests except hanging out at bars and casinos (when he has the money). He likes to have fun, respects no one.
What in **** is the attraction?
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09-05-13, 12:45 AM #1
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What the ****?
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09-05-13, 12:55 AM #2
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Why do you give a shit?
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09-05-13, 01:03 AM #3
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Because he has hurt numerous people with his actions. His wife, this girl, other people at work. However, even after hurting this girl (I know she was REALLY hurt), she eventually returned to him and I am puzzled what would make a girl do this?
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09-05-13, 01:05 AM #4
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the attraction is the fact that your friend has no self-esteem and she thinks he's the only type of guy that she can get. She needs some therapy to help her with her lack of love of self.
Originally Posted by bob the brave
Read up on codependency at it will explain further. Did the girl you know have a crappy childhood?“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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09-05-13, 01:08 AM #5
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Shit is atractive man. Write on dating site that you are stinky unemployed drug addict and you gona be surprised how much attention you'll get. Its the availabilty that is atractive. Its Simplicty of character that makes feel women secure. Also lot of girls are desperate for any man and anyone who have the courage to go for what he wants can have that kind of girl. You will be amazed how much you can get just asking for it. Direct aproach and clear intentions is the key.
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09-05-13, 01:09 AM #6
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Yes.. You'll be amazed at what you get, that's for sure.
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Again, why do you care, it's not your problem. Originally Posted by bob the brave
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09-05-13, 01:18 AM #8
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I'll bet he 'cares' because he likes the girl, he's a self-proclaimed nice guy who tried to rescue her and she didn't let him.
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09-05-13, 01:20 AM #9
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Some 20 year olds will be real sweet findings(they dont yet have confidence and no idea what they are worth) but older than that sure would be mental if they go for the bottom guys like this one. Unless its juist one night fck. Maybe shes never been in relationship where partner treats her nice so could her confidence can grow. Intead shes dated loser guys who took her selfesteem away intead of giving it.
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09-05-13, 01:22 AM #10
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If you know he shoots BB guns at his dogs with a certainty, then you should have the moral decency to call about animal cruelty.
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09-05-13, 01:25 AM #11
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At best they will take dogs away from him. To make him pay for his actions you have to take it to court personaly.
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You don't need uncessary problems in your life, just take a step back and find another women, theres plenty lol.
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Well, as long as he does SOMETHING. Then again, this could just be a troll.. Originally Posted by pcmaster
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09-05-13, 01:30 AM #14
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OP if you want her to be with you then offer her something better than him. Bet you never even tried.
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Tried and failed. Originally Posted by pcmaster
My concern is two-fold:
1) I liked her so it is personal.
2) I don't like seeing crap rule the day. I like a nice world in general where people at least try to respect each other. When someone has the upper hand be it in a relationship or a position of authority and they use it to abuse others, I don't like it. I just wanted to understand.
