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You should ask yourself one question: are you being fair to your girlfriend?
Seems to me you want to keep the cake and eat it at the same time. You're trying to solve your problems in the...

Well it's a form of contact isn't it? I don't think there's really anything you can achieve with that right now, in the end you'll just cause more grief to yourself. You can't use reasoning to make...

You should forget her and move on, it's a lost cause. Take the advice offered in this thread, any approaches towards her right now will have the opposite effect of what you're hoping for. Occupy...

I thnk you should seriously consider going to couples therapy. As said she probably has psychological issues after the abortion but that doesn't mean she doesn't want to have sex anymore at all....

You should feel guilty. Dude going around screwing other people will only damage your relationship regardless how you might try to justify it.
Here's a wild idea: Have you tried talking to her about...

Thanks for all the advice. Today was a really bad day for me, from the moment I woke up I had this paralyzing anxiety within me. Seems I get all manic and hopeful one day and the next I'm like this....

You can use statistics to prove anything, 14% of all people know that

Try taking up any type of dancing hobby (make sure it's a beginners course), seriously if you're shy that's a great way to open up. You don't have to be good at small talk but you're still...

Let it go, if you've been bombarding him with messages it's likely that he thinks you're creepy. It can't be a very big deal anyway if you met him on facebook only.

I'm sick and tired of constantly just almost getting there with women. I've decided I need to start making some drastic changes in my life. Where do I start?
I know the biggest problem I have is my...

Yeah I guess your right. I'd just rather not have it become really akward because I know I'd have a hard time talking to her afterwards.
You can call me a pussy but I'm somewhat in a shielded mode...

Good to hear that things work out sometimes too. :D

So I've been getting closer with this girl at school but I'm a bit puzzled by her behaviour. Yesterday we were at a party and later at a bar and things were great at the start of the evening. At the...

It's so hard for me to discuss this with anyone I'm close to, there's just so much negativity inside me that it repels people.
I think I screwed things up yesterday with the people here too, I...

Just thought I'd update that she accepted the friend request yesterday. I think everyone here is right, she hasn't made any contact on the chat or anything.
I'm going to refrain from hitting her up...

I'm of the opinion you should meet face to face as soon as possible. If your intention is a serious relationship than you're starting on the wrong ground with the online thing.

Yeah I'd say if you're both single and share a bed that he likes you as more than a friend.

Thank you for that insightful post, I think you described perfectly how I feel. You're right I should learn to be alone and fine with that, I'm just constantly living with this fear that I'll screw...

I put up with her because I was madly in love and honestly I couldn't see these things back then, she's really good at manipulating. I look back now at even our first fights and they were bizarre. I...

I didn't go on the cruise back because I was traveling to another country on a longer trip and we literally had no time left to talk as I had to leave with my party for shore.
I guess the thing is I...

Yes that sounds very cruel to me, you shouldn't have to put up with that. He probably has issues or possible doesn't love you anymore but is unable to communicate with you. Another possibility is...

I haven't deleted anything yet but I've managed to keep from contacing her. I'm trying really hard to focus on the people here at the moment. Actually I just had a really nice conversation on FB with...

That sounds pretty crap dude. Actually the guy she was cheating me with is like 15 years older and a osteopath or something. You know I'm really not trying to say I did everything right but I am of...

You're right, it was definitely the right thing for me to move away and start anew. I'm just tired having this hole in my soul.

You know no offence but you don't think that's pretty harsh considering you only know small details of the circumstances? Yes I've been far from perfect but it's my fault she cheated on me?
I'd say...