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Reason I say spark is that we passed each other for the first time in about a year at work and said hi, then I got an email about 15 minutes later from her chatting me up and we've been steadily...

I understand it would be tough to give an accurate answer as we are all strangers, but...

Why would a girl whom I've been talking with for awhile, whom I work with, text me at 11:30 at night,...

......to ask a girl you've previously been with to hook up just for sex and no emotional attachments, without looking like a jerk? Let's face it, we all have sexual needs, and reading through this...

Sorry for bumping this old thread but, but a lot has happened since my last posting and I thought I'd share it to see if there were any new thoughts.

Since the last time I've posted, we've...

Her slightly on her side, me straddling bottom leg w/ her top leg crossing over with her knee pulled up close to her chest. Hard to describe but if you saw it you'd know what I'm talking about. Like...

So she's doing foreplay but not giving it up or going any further? That's pretty bogus.

I've found that I have a massive thing for Asian women. Idk what it is about them they are just hot for some reason.

I also like glasses and nerdy looks a lot.

Take it easy, I wasn't talking about me or any situation I was in. Purely hypothetical.

Here girls say this all the time, what exactly do they mean? Obvious first thought would be that perhaps they were in a relationship and it went very bad, thus ruining it for them in the future, but...

Well I basically kind of just put the ball in her court, gave her my number and said wherever/whenever, so I know that if she does call/text, it would almost have to mean she is interested. If I...

Haha I don't lack confidence and I'm not insecure at all, she's just one of those chicks that doesn't put off the vibe like they would be approachable the same way others are.

Anyway, I sent her...

So I ended up seeing this girl out again, this group of friends went out to a bar for a mutual friends birthday and she was there. We said hi to each other and she asked if she could have a drink of...

Yeah, the pretty much exactly happened to me. G/F was hanging all the time w/ a co-worker who had no idea she had a boyfriend. I was "jealous" and all that bs, we broke up, they ended up dating....

All of that makes sense. The idea I had was to be just friends or whatever until the opportunity comes up like it always does and make a very aggressive move so that there is no grey area. The thing...

LOL well I didn't say I said that to her. This situation is funny, I've done nothing or said nothing to her for her to think that I want to be more than 'friends' (even though I do.) but she insists...

Yesterday I was contacted again. She sent me a picture of some beer she was drinking at this place we've been meaning to go to for awhile that we always used to go to when we were together, my...

I don't think it's really offensive as much as lame. I mean who says that to their g/f or b/f? That's a term you use out w/ your friends out at a bar or something bullshitting around. Shit made me...

I think it's a fine line. Often times it is done to intice a chase I think. Perhaps if you try contacting them a bit, and see if they return the favor, they may have been doing the same thing you...

Umm......yeah, all my answers are no. Not like I'm the "jealous of every dude my girl talks to type" or anything, but with all those examples, AT LEAST one of them isn't in the right context and...

Well it never really ended, they just "take breaks" or whatever is what has happend. I don't really ask her much about it really, as I feel that she wouldn't really care to talk about it w/ me...

Being a male in this pretty much exact situation, I say yes. It's downright killing me inside.

When you have a stong feeling that a girl you work with likes you, or is interested, but has a serious b/f? There's a girl I work with who ALWAYS smiles at me and talks to me when she passes me,...

To give you a reason to never talk to her again or let her waste your time.

I think a lot of people mistake being "friends" with just being on good terms and being nice to each other. I wouldn't say I'm "friends" w/ my ex's as I don't talk to them on any regularity, but I...

It's just a title really. I mean, the way you described your relationship, you two are dating lol.