What does "we've been meeting up" actually mean? Have you been taking her out on dates, showing her romantic "tells" that indicate that you want her for more then an opposite sex friend or have you been just hanging out like you're her opposite sex friend who sees no physical or romantic attraction to her?
It's too early to ask her where this is going if you've done NOTHING to show her where you'd like it to go.
If you haven't been showing her that you want her for more then another friend then you best show her in some way that indicates to her that you're interested in dating her (kissing her, holding her hand, putting your arm around her and seeing if she's open to letting you) and eventually, if things go well, being her exclusive boyfriend. (too soon to voice that though because doing so will likely scare her away or make her make a decision to soon).
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion