I kinda felt for a while she may like me, I find her behaviour confusing. What would you think to this? If she had just said I was pretty then I would take it as she was just being nice but adding the rest has made me wonder what she feels towards me?
For FS... did you forget the fact that she's MARRIED.
There is absolutely NOTHING confusing about it. You should chalk her up as a dumb C word (good choice of monker for her "C") for saying smack to you. You should also just ignore the bitch SINCE SHE'S MARRIED... Hellllllllo! You don't want to get involved or embroiled in anyone who is married so don't even think about her comment as anything other then a stupid C being inappropriate.
Look to your personal boundaries and if you're crushing on her, avoid her like she has ALL of the communicable STD's imaginable.
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I'll add that I'm sure your partner wouldn't like you two sitting there discussing who would do whom if they were'nt married either so ditch her and don't let her bullshit sway you one way or the other.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion