bf insults me

[lost08]

Hey guys why would my bf be calling me fat lazy etc and always insult me we argue about every couple of weeks because i get upset then he turns it around on me and gets angry at me for causing an argument over it when im trying to explain how it makes me feel, then he will just starting laughing and says theres the door if you dont like it. But he just proposed a few weeks ago. Any advice helpful

[pcmaster]

Well you shouldnt get married until he starts respect you. Also dont respond to him when he insults you because thats fat or lazy is not your name. Next time hes insulting you just leave him alone and walk away or turn back to him. Ask him apologise and if he dont then leave. Dont let this drag you down.

[lost08]

Thankyou pcmaster i have tried what you said it doesnt really make alot of difference he will just keep repeating himself until he gets my attention and will follow me around the worst part is he does in front of his family and friends, he jokes around alot so they think its funny and when i tell him it offends me just argues back and says he doesnt care how it makes me because its a joke

[pcmaster]

says he doesnt care how it makes me because its a joke

Well then why wouldn't you jokingly call him stupid dickhole.

[Wakeup]

Let me guess... you don't leave him because no one else, EVEN YOU is good to you, at least SOMETIMES...

Where is your mother and father that they don't give you guidance about what is and isn't love?

[michelle23]

Hes abusive. Why are you still there accepting poor treatment? Do you not have any boundaries as to what is/isn't okay with you? And why are your standards so low that you will allow someone to verbally beat you down like this regularly?

[smackie9]

He proposed so he can keep abusing you forever after.