I have been with my wife for 7 years and married about 4.5 years. Currently we are separated. Things were great before marriage, we had common goals, had fun and were supportive of each other. Slowly after marriage her attitude changed. Important life goals for me did not matter, she set about achieving her goals while I waited (I actually helped her with study and support). All her promises of buying a house together, relocating to my country (Oz), having a family, visiting my family and helping me study drifted away. She began to insult me, always fought and made weekends miserable. I cooked for her, cleaned the house and went shopping all the time. I am no angel or role model, but in 2010 my Mum passed away and she supported me for a while, but she only gave me 2 months to grieve and it is taking me much longer, which she does not care about. I never cheated on her. She is the only girl I have been with. Now, as I reach mid-30's, I am so angry with her, all the insults hurt and losing my Mum has knocked me very hard. She does not seem to care. I always thought she was a nice girl, now I do not know if I can trust anyone. I am very disillusioned with women as I thought she was nice and caring, now my judgement must be questioned.