Holy shit, your approaches are seriously fvcked. No wonder you're not getting bites. You could be the hottest guy on earth and I'd still say "no" to you.
Subway: I'm not going to start chatting with a stranger who is walking by, sees me and stops to talk to me. Too creepy. If we're sitting next to each other on the subway and there's a delay or other incident and we start talking, then it's fine.
Event: Rushing straight in with "I'd like to hang out with you sometime" is bad. It shows that you're judging me by my appearance and therefore you are shallow. However, I'd possibly start talking with you if you were seated next to me and we were enjoying the show together and talking about the show first.
Out drinking: Are you approaching women on your own or within a group of other men? If you're on your own, it screams "loser who has no clue about having friends'. However, if you are part of a group of men who approach a group of women, it's far less likely to fail.
Rejection upon first sight: refer back to subway comment.
I really hope you aren't interrupting women who are reading or are listening to music on their phones. Books and devices are the best way to display "don't bother me"
Mate, change your attitude and look for girls who you can secure an introduction to (ie; at a friend's party). Look for girls when you're out having fun with some other single guys. Join a sport or social club, get to know some girls who's personalities you like and ask them out. But this whole walking up to strangers thing is just icky.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 23-02-15 at 05:42 PM.
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