We are in 30ties. We've know each other for a long time.
I always thought he likes me, but we never went on a date untill a month ago.
We went on 3 dates alone otherwise we hangout in a gang few times a year. He is mostly an acquintices who likes to chat with me for hours when we ran into each other on some ocasions.
Since we've known each other for a long time it was wierd to hangout with him alone.
We didn't kiss. He is a bit shy introvent. But not to shy to make a move and texting me his naked photo.
He was the one calling me out to hang out. At first it was a friendly invitation like let's watch some sports together. Let's go running together. I realised I liked him but I was acting the whole time as a friend, I wasn't after him he was after me. Thought he'd figure out somehow and make some moves.
I asked him if we can hangout together after 3 weeks, he was busy 24/7 with his work. Okay...
Meanwhile because he seemed a bit shy I tried to initiate the contact trought texting doint the iternal jokes. He laughed...and said he we could go out that he will call me...I said okay, it would be awesome....He didn't call
Then he likes all I post on facebook, but no IM. okay...
One day I needed his help with my job, he took care of it...then I texted him that we could go out if he wants because I like him, but if he doesn't want to that I will understand. He replied after 24 h saying that he really can't, he kept saying that 4 times in a row aplogizing like a lunatic.
I was saying that it was ok, not a big deal!
3 days after that, I went out at a party, got drunk, and texted him - what does he thinks about the fact that I like him? That was last friday night.
He din't say a thing about it, no reply, zero.
Why?
I am not some random chick, I am his best friend's sister who he likes for ages. At least if he lost interest or something he could of just call me, text me something. I would totally understand it, he knows that I am an easygoing person.
If I was some unknown chick who he picked up in a bar drunk, I'd understand this ignoring stuff.
I am starting to think that this guy is an ass and I find it really rude for not saying anything about it.
Any insights? Is he an ass or not? I don't think I did anything wrong. I confessed I like a guy friend who likes me for years too, day before he aplogizes for being busy like crazy, the day after he ignores me. And I seriously never chased him like some stalker, begging him to do anything. I just said I liked him. No response. Awesome!
This behaviour turns me off... I will blow him off for good as some potential bf material, he'll be friendzoned.