Very confused in regards to his feelings for me and lack of sexual libido

[Wakeup]

I suggest that YOU get the whole picture right instead of spinning it so it suits your desperate agenda. The fact that you spend all your time in an online environment or not is quite frankly, not all that important.... the other things I'm pointing out to you are though so I'll reiterate. If you're the least bit having any love for Yourself, you'll grasp what a mess you're hoping will advance to the next stage.

the fact he came out to visit after being friends for 2 years is a good sign.

Whats good about it? He can't get it up. He won't admit that you are his girlfriend? He can't keep an erection up when he does get one. He's too far away from you to nurture a real-time relationship.

So... you tell ME why you think him coming to visit you when all those other negatives are front and centre is a "good" sign. All it means is that he came to see you. None of the other negative and poor relationship material things are "good."

Get real and look at this with logic instead of desperation to be with someone. Can you even imagine a life with a man with all those UNqualities? Is he who you would consider a good partner for LIFE?

Have you tried dating in vancouver, personally?

You are not able to logic out much of anything. I don't have to have personally tried dating in Vancouver to know that there are good men there to be had. If you have conducted your dating life there like you have this 'THING' you've got going on with your limp dick hopeful then I can see why you've not been able to suss out any of them.

It's your prerogative to continue on in this thing but you're here posting for a reason. You just don't like it that I agree that you have somethings to be bitching about. Things that haven't changed from the beginning of your relationship with him and by the looks of it will not change if the two of you become committed. Do you see? Do you care about yourself and your own best end interests? If not then so be it.

[dontaskme]

Junk o,

To whom are you talking to? Regardless of whom,
If you cannot be nice, please ____ off.. This is a place where posters can post whatever they like, their opinions; and just because their opinion may not match your own, gives you no reason, no just reason that is to behave poorly...

(and if you were referring to me in your first line after my last post, I suggest You re read my post as I was not referring to you 'English'.

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STOP BEING BITCHES

Ummmm, I wouldn't want to piss off sweet woody, if I were you guys Listen to the lady!

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Personally, I think Canadian guys, especially those from Vancouver are awesome! Although most guys I'm sure (not only guys from Vancouver) would not want to date or take girls that are not really dating material seriously, and that can happen anywhere

[SDelight]

Okiesss...wowy chill...I just gave an opinion that we shouldn't judge other situations as people briefly tell their stories on this. Clearly 'woody' if I was to judge I can easily say that us just typing in this forum makes us all look 'jobless/needy/' etc and whatever nonsense you want to say. But we all have our own stories and just seek advice. Your open to your opinion, and I am not bashing you or anything. Anyways 'junko' all the best with your situation and hope that you guys talk as I really think its time to do so.

[Wakeup]

if I was to judge I can easily say that us just typing in this forum makes us all look 'jobless/needy/' etc and whatever nonsense you want to say.

Well, the difference would be that wouldn't be "judging" based on fact from the opening poster. It would be assuming about people that you have yet to hear anything about in an opening post.

[woody]

I'm already too cold so no need to chill.
But yes, fair nuff. Cosmic joints all round or brownies, bottles of pinot, merlot, what ever your preference, cheese, grapes for all.
Never said you were bashing me. Never said bashing at all. Just thought you and another were being not as nice as you could have been
and well, it pisses me off when two lovely ladies go at each other for no good reason

[Wakeup]

Don't look at it as "going at one another" woody... I look at it as exercising my personal boundaries and defending my opinion.

I don't take offence and you shouldn't either. There was no personal attacks, no one called any one any names and all it is was just some passion in our responses.

[junko]

Love the fact I am being told I am rude when 'wake up' is being even worse and no 'woody' was not aimed at you but being told to p*** off I think I will do that and not bother with this forum anymore.

I have seen some of the awful advice that 'wake up has given and frankly im surprised she doesn't get more backlash.

I don't expect to be told I am s*** at dating!

and f*** Vancouver men they are mostly all knobs!!!!!!!



Shove your advice where the sun don't shine 'wake up' because its all its good for.

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Anyways 'junko' all the best with your situation and hope that you guys talk as I really think its time to do so.

Thank you - best advice yet! best of luck on here with these bitches - im done!

[Wakeup]

Love the fact I am being told I am rude when 'wake up' is being even worse and no 'woody' was not aimed at you but being told to p*** off I think I will do that and not bother with this forum anymore.

I have seen some of the awful advice that 'wake up has given and frankly im surprised she doesn't get more backlash.

I don't expect to be told I am s*** at dating!

and f*** Vancouver men they are mostly all knobs!!!!!!!



Shove your advice where the sun don't shine 'wake up' because its all its good for.

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Thank you - best advice yet! best of luck on here with these bitches - im done!

Below is what I received in my inbox from someone who is proposing that there is no good men in Vancouver. One can safely imagine why she has been having such dismal results dating if she can get that riled up over the advise of stranger on the internet.

****ing btch go **** yourself and your sad ****ing pathetic life!!

Your a ****ing troll and shit at advice.

My guess is you havnt got laid in a very long time and just take great delight in trolling and getting off on other people misfortunes and issues

I know im going to be blocked on here after this so I will save you the trouble

Your a ****ing CUNT!

SMH

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BTW: I missed this previously but you should be advised that "Tinder" is known to be A HOOK UP SITE so it's no wonder that those that contacted you were just looking for quickies. lmao

[woody]

^^^ Wow, she really write that? Quite the mouth. Really?. Wow. INteresting she thinks there's no rudeness there. Wonder how she'd do face to face.. huh. Well, hope she gets proper laid and soon; something. Almost sounds like she needs to read a Tom Robbins novel. I suggest 'Skinny Legs n' all'

Back to the English she goes..
good luck finding a good man junko

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This thread is bothering me.
I strongly dislike foulness.
But [MENTION=79402]junko[/MENTION], I think I know why he's having some issues in the sack. If he is an old fashion guy as you feel he is, he'll be very protective of heart and men like that tend to have a more balanced connection between their penis and heart, at least, more than most.
Meaning, your not from here. You live far far away. He takes a risk opening up to you because your just going to leave anyway so why would he risk falling for anyone that lives an Ocean away...that's only going to leave him hanging..

good luck and uh, try using your words. However, (though I don't like where you directed it), Your "where the Sun don't shine" comment? I use that one too but mine's more thorough. Let me share my add on, I think you'll like it. It's good. here we go. "Please stick it where the Sun don't shine and rotate, twice" Nice eh? yeah, thought you 'd like that. Not intended for you. i'm looking for laughs.
I think you ought lighten up.
regards.
woodinator, a.k.a m.e

[Wakeup]

Yepper... that's a direct quote lol.

I didn't report her btw... only people I've ever reported is spammers.

[dontaskme]

Junk-o baby, chillax, no need to bash me too, you know what I'm talking about you can write it in public, no need for private message.

I stand by my word, you're undateable (now I know why by Canadian and American standards anyway) and good luck finding a normal guy.

[breathe123]

OMFG & SMH, at the craziness. You won't get banned, junko, ( on your comment that you'd get blocked, which I think you mean banned off the site?) no mods on here & no active admin either & took months for a spammer to get killed.

[Wakeup]

... Well, that's not entirely true. All you have to do is email LA directly and he usually takes care of things that he feels need taking care of quite quickly. Least that's been my experience.

I'm thinking that If he wasn't administering the site at all, you'd probably not even be able to log in by now.

[Jffs24]

WU it is accurate in the way she meant it ( isn't on forum showing himself or replying like he always did) since a long time member basil had to made a thread in suggestions asking if the admin was still here. He used to be way more active and I was told by another long time member he started not posting answering on the forum after the hacking and banning of old members which occurred some point last summer.

Lots of times myself and I read others could not log into this forum due to the constant spamming of it.

[Wakeup]

I don't know what to tell you? I'm just giving you my personal experience. *shrugs* I don't know anything about any of the stuff you're mentioning.
There was a ton load of posts from some guru freak that kept coming in but perhaps LA was on holiday or something during that period? Just a guess.