I've been with my bf for 18 months and generally speaking hes a nice enough guy. He was never my usual type as he is not particularly good looking and certainly not the best specimen of a guy body wise but I was fed up of players etc.
Anyway recently I have been getting closer to my gym instructor to the point that I know something would happen between us if I wanted.
He is so good looking and has an amazing body but I do not think he'd be a great boyfriend as he's too much of a player.
My boyfriend knows him too and Dan, the instructor ridicules my bf as he is a lot weaker and smaller than him etc.
Anyway my question is how can I prevent being attracted to him and is a one off really a bad thing?
Lauren