So here's a hypothetical question. Suppose a girl and a guy know that they like each other, but the guy doesn't want to have sex unless they're in a serious relationship. Then the girl goes and gives oral to the guy's friend shortly before entering a relationship with that guy she likes. Is it wrong?
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23-08-15, 09:45 AM #1
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Does the past really matter?
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23-08-15, 01:23 PM #2
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I am sure the guy won't appreciate you gave his friend a blow job..makes things awkward. I wouldn't want to date a guy who had been with a good friend of mine, plenty of other people to choose from instead.
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23-08-15, 09:54 PM #3
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Is this the same girl you wrote about here? [url]https://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/95834-friends-girlfriend.html[/url]
If so, you're misrepresenting the story. You missed the boat and she ended up dating him. She's done nothing wrong.Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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24-08-15, 06:43 AM #4
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No it's not about her, this is a different situation that happened a while ago, and I recently started thinking about it again. I was the guy that made her wait, and we did start dating. But she blew my friend shortly before that and I didn't find out until a few months after we broke up. It kind of makes me upset, so I wonder if she was wrong in what she did.
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24-08-15, 06:47 AM #5
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WOW, not sure... No head games- excuse the pun... But if you sit down with her and have an honest talk with her... why cant people just sit down and talk... why must we always try to interpret the actions of others.. why not just ask them...
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24-08-15, 07:16 AM #6
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We haven't really kept in touch for almost a year now. I feel like if I contact her out of nowhere to discuss this, it would just be awkward. But maybe you're right, maybe I should ask her. We had a conversation about her sexual past while we were dating but she never mentioned her giving head to my friend. It's weird because we were hanging out that night it happened. We were hitting it off, but later she went to my friend's place and did what she did.
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24-08-15, 04:36 PM #7
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Whats a wee blowy between friends?
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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24-08-15, 04:44 PM #8
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Ah, so it's past history. Suggest you leave it in the past.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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26-08-15, 03:58 AM #9
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I'm not necessarily against a bj between friends. I just wonder. If a girl likes a guy, and she knows that guy likes her, why would she fool around with one of his best friends? But yea it's in the past. Dwelling on it won't change anything.
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