Lost a friend...want her back...feeling depressed

[clements]

I used to be close friends with this girl in class. But now we don’t talk to each other for some reason. During the first few days of "us not talking to each other" it seemed fine because I made friends with another girl. I felt like it was ok to have lost her (the first girl) and college would still be fun because I thought I could have the same kind of friendship that I had with the first girl, with this girl. But as days passed I started missing her (the first girl). I started missing the friendship we used to share. We were never in a relationship or anything but we were more than friends. We could talk about anything to each other. We used to be best friends. We wouldn’t go out with our friends if the either if us wasn’t there. We couldn’t do without each other. We used to be so close that on one occasion – on her birthday, our friends planned to surprise her and after she cut the cake she fed me first even though her boyfriend was there. Ever since we stopped talking, I’ve been pretending to be a happy person but I’m sad most of the time. I feel like people can look through me and make out that I’m not happy because I’ve become so insecure, unconfident and lonely. Now when I look back, I feel like we were in a relationship. I miss her very much. I don’t know if she is pretending to be happy too because I’ve seen her sad sometimes. And her friends (whom I thought she became very close to after we stopped talking) sometimes talk bad about her. Sometimes I feel she is going through the same thing that I am going through and that she misses me too but I don’t know what to do about it. I so badly want her back in my life but I don’t know how to approach her or talk to her or find the right time to talk to her. I’m scared that if I try to tell her that I miss her, she would think that I’m a kid and that I’m not capable of letting go of the past or something like that and also make fun of me. I’ve tried my best to just let it go and move on and think that friends come and go but I just can’t because I’ve never lost a friend in my life and this hurts a lot. And the fact that we’re both in the same class makes me think of her even more. I used to be such a happy person when I was friends with her but now I feel like I will never be happy because I’ve lost all my confidence, self-esteem and pride.
I know this doesn’t sound like a big problem but it has been bothering me ever since we stopped talking. It has been more than a year and I don’t want to live with this feeling anymore because I’ve been depressed all this time and I think depression is the worst disease anyone can have, so I had to let it out today. I’m really happy I found a place to post this and hope that I will get some answers that would help me deal with this situation, or fear or whatever this is called. I don’t know what to call it.

Thank You

[roland366]

Hello,
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[Jemme]

It may sound very cliche, but the worst love to lose is the one where you never told the person how much you love and need them in your life. Even if she is with someone else, tell her how you feel. No expectation for the outcome, but rather to give her a chance to hear your feelings and you a chance to hear her hear them. Again, DO NOT expect any particular outcome, just the opportunity to be honest and open. You will move on quicker if she says she does not feel the same, and you will stop tormenting yourself about words left unsaid.

If she rejects you, focus on the truth of her words, not on the good ole times. Why? Because this is your new truth and the reason to move on.

And if she accepts you back in her life, remember this time always - never to go through it again.


I wish you the best of luck in love.

Cheers!

[clements]

It may sound very cliche, but the worst love to lose is the one where you never told the person how much you love and need them in your life. Even if she is with someone else, tell her how you feel. No expectation for the outcome, but rather to give her a chance to hear your feelings and you a chance to hear her hear them. Again, DO NOT expect any particular outcome, just the opportunity to be honest and open. You will move on quicker if she says she does not feel the same, and you will stop tormenting yourself about words left unsaid.

If she rejects you, focus on the truth of her words, not on the good ole times. Why? Because this is your new truth and the reason to move on.

And if she accepts you back in her life, remember this time always - never to go through it again.


I wish you the best of luck in love.

Cheers!

Thanks for the tips. Will keep them in mind .