Dating Websites in Emails?

[treehugger101]

How many of you, who have an email address no matter what the address, sometimes get spam in your junk folder? Do you ever get spam that happens to be from a dating website, one of which you AREN'T a member of? It was just one of those bots that sent the email for the hell of it? How many of you have had this happen before?

IF this has never happened to you before, then what are the chances of you receiving an email from a dating site, indicating that you have NEW matches available, sign in to view them now! The only way you would have gotten that email EVEN IF IT WAS IN THE JUNK FOLDER, this would mean that you had an account on that said dating website right?

Look at these emails, that were in the SPAM folder, do you think they are legit or just spam from a bot?





What do you think?

[basilandthyme]

Stop being so gullible. I'm a straight female and have had emails showing perfect matches with other women.

Please don't tell me you're going through your boyfriend's spam filter :/

[treehugger101]

I am going through his emails because he allows me and this is what I found. Plus I found he had installed that dating APP called Tinder on his phone so.

[basilandthyme]

Have you considered that this email is in his spam filter and not his deleted items? The whole idea of a spam filter is to remove rubbish emails which we don't want.

That being said, I can't believe you are reading his emails. (wait, no I CAN believe it) Are you aware of just how dysfunctional your relationship with this guy is?

[smackie9]

Just frickin breakup will ya.....the writing is on the wall, he wants out.

[Lilly328]

Wow thats extreme. This relationship has no trust at all. Why would you snoop into his emails?

[topazlight]

So who has the account name Royalblue4you?

[treehugger101]

So who has the account name Royalblue4you?

That was HIS ACCOUNT NAME for the MATCH.COM. He lets me log onto his email, social media, etc.

[smackie9]

That was HIS ACCOUNT NAME for the MATCH.COM. He lets me log onto his email, social media, etc.

So what other proof do you need?

[treehugger101]

I want him to admit to making it.

[basilandthyme]

You do know that we don't always get what we want?

What is the sense in hanging around waiting for something you're probably never going to get?

[treehugger101]

Well I did get what I wanted, Him and I talked and he admitted to having the Match.com and Tinder profiles and was going to use them but only because he thought we were broken up. Him and I NEVER did break up, he jumped the gun and thought we were but we never were because I never made it official. As of now I am giving him another chance and will see what happens.

[Lilly328]

Where you like this with the guy you were once engaged to?

[basilandthyme]

Well I did get what I wanted, Him and I talked and he admitted to having the Match.com and Tinder profiles and was going to use them but only because he thought we were broken up. Him and I NEVER did break up, he jumped the gun and thought we were but we never were because I never made it official. As of now I am giving him another chance and will see what happens.

Did he call for a breakup but you refused? You do know that a person doesn't need your agreement to move on?

[treehugger101]

No he never said we were broken up and I never said we were broken up. He just kept thinking in his head that we were going to break up, because we kept fighting and upsetting one another and that everything was going to end. But him and I got together a few times and talked everything over as we always do, and he says he doesn't want anyone else. Yes he knows he did wrong by creating these websites, but he thought we were going to break up so he was preparing himself. Once he saw how many chances I have given him, that showed him that I did care for him, he see's I want to be with him, he wants to be with me, I do make him happy and he does make me happy, and he has changed, I have seen it in him lately.