Dirty Talk: How to get better at it

[melancholia]

Someone posted a thread about dirty talk in a separate forum and it got me thinking... I'd love some tips on how to get better at it because I am not great at dirty talk. Here is an example:

One time, I was in the middle of things with a guy I was dating and he asked me to talk dirty. I was nervous, but decided to go with it and at one point I said, "my p*ssy wants you to f*ck it" and he laughed so hard at me and it totally killed the mood. He wasn't laughing in a disrespectful way, but I felt stupid because I am not used to dirty talk during sex and I couldn't think of what to say. Dirty talk is something that I am not great at. It's not that I don't like it, it's just that I find it awkward to think of what to say, especially if I'm put "on the spot". I would like to get better at it, and I know that takes practice, but is there anything you could suggest that might make it easier so that I can begin to feel more comfortable?

[Wakeup]

I would have answered him with something that I wanted to do to him... not something that I wanted him to do to me.

You'll have to use your imagination while thinking about past sexual encounters and what took place during those times (whether or not those encounters took place with the man you're talking dirty to doesn't matter). Just remember what took place and describe those things and verbalize how they made you feel... even if it's how you felt while, say, blowing him.

I'll stop at giving actual examples.

[JHova1378]

Get real nasty with him. Talk about things that are going to embarrass you personally, but things that will turn him on immediately.

Honestly, I would watch some porn videos and get an idea of how those girls talk to their men. That would really give you an idea!