He Contacted My Ex?

[treehugger101]

Last night, my Boyfriend of 10 months, almost a year, goes and tells me, he contacted my ex, and he asked him, all that we did together, and he told him everything. But he says he talked to my ex 5 years ago in like 2007. When my ex and I didn't become a couple until 2008 through 2011. He says it must of been a different person, but he says this person says he was with someone for 3 years, so it must have been my ex. My current Boyfriend must have just gotten the years mixed up.

My point is that, I find it weird that he would go as far as contacting my ex, let alone asking him personal stuff like what him and I did while together. Have any of you, ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend, contact your ex to get information?

What happened, what did you do?

[CrasherRob8]

That's concerning because why would he want to know? Nothing good would have come from it, especially him asking what you both did together. Sounds like he's a little insecure and/or controlling

[treehugger101]

Yeah he is insecure. I think he dislikes what I did in the past and if I don't do it with him he gets upset I don't know.

[treehugger101]

Him and I are working things out now.

[nheeya]

maybe he wanted to know what happened to the relationship why it didn't work-out so he will have an idea and can avoid it this time with you. As long as there's no sign of jealousy and insecurity from your present boyfriend, i think it's ok if he will ask stuufs bout your past.