Need help about a male friend & dating

[ajfort87]

So I have a good male friend and we dated for about 6 months. He was not ready for a commitment and I needed more. So we have remained friends. We have been spending a lot more time together recently and he came to take care of me for a few days after surgery. We are currently planning a trip to Hawaii together. I had a female friend ask if we were getting a room with one bed or two. I said probably 2 and then if he decides to sleep with me then great. Her response was that he might get the impression that I don't want him in bed with me if I get the two beds. I would really prefer sharing a bed with him, but I also don't want to assume that is ok with him. Things have always been a bit complicated with us... so looking for men's opinions on this matter. So guys... 1 bed or 2??? Thanks!

[Wakeup]

So I have a good male friend and we dated for about 6 months. He was not ready for a commitment and I needed more. So we have remained friends. We have been spending a lot more time together recently and he came to take care of me for a few days after surgery. We are currently planning a trip to Hawaii together. I had a female friend ask if we were getting a room with one bed or two. I said probably 2 and then if he decides to sleep with me then great. Her response was that he might get the impression that I don't want him in bed with me if I get the two beds. I would really prefer sharing a bed with him, but I also don't want to assume that is ok with him. Things have always been a bit complicated with us... so looking for men's opinions on this matter. So guys... 1 bed or 2??? Thanks!

Why don't you ask HIM what HE prefers instead of asking strangers that wouldn't know what the hell he would prefer?

BTW: You are foolish to be putting YOUR agenda on him when all he wants to be is your friend. You "needed more" so wtf are you settling for less as his fvck buddy?

[emotionaid]

1 bed =]

2 friends can sleep on one bed, a couple can also sleep on 1 bed, doesn't really matter tbh, just ask him, but I'm sure he doesn't mind.
Just make a decision and choose 1 bed, then tell him, at least if hes doesn't like it, you can change it and you get an idea of where he is at.

[melancholia]

Get two beds... then you can sneak into his when he least expects it!