Originally Posted by
fubbydubby
It's not about having attention. He's still in my life and talks to me, but a lot less than before. I am only asking this question to find out if he actually ever enjoyed our friendship. I feel as though he had lots of fun and memories with me, yet the distance is making me question it. No one is answering that one question. Does he just not care about who I was as a person, my personality, character, the fun times we had? What about all that? I'm not looking for a relationship but I just want to know why men feel the need to not hang out with a girl just because she's not giving him sex!
I'm sure he did value the friendship. And then he started to want more and it ceased to be *just* a friendship. When he realised that it was no longer just a friendship and nothing more was going to come of it, he did the only thing he could - which is walk away.
I also agree with Lightstar - it would be inappropriate for him to continue a friendship with you when he wants more.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.