Please help....I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years to a guy that I have known for many years. I can honestly say that I avoided this guy for a good while before we engaged in a relationship because he was such a player. When he talks to me about our relationship status (not very often) he says that one thing, then to get asked about our relationship by other to refer to me as his girl or refers to our relationship as "dealing". If I am asked in front of him our relationship status and I say anything other than significant other or fiance he gets silent and withdrawn. But I take the term "dealing" to mean that he isnt serious. Can I get some insight guys??