When someone tells you that they are not ready to be in a relationship then chances are very, very low that they are ever going to be ready to be in one with YOU. Human nature would never let someone say that to the person that they want to be with... they just wouldn't take a chance on losing you if they actually cared.
It is what it is.
I suggest that you dial back your attentions to her, be busy (actually busy not just saying you're busy) and don't be so keen to be in her company when ever she wants you to be. Slowly wean yourself off of her and DO NOT stop exercising any female options that come your way.
Its more likely then not that she's not even being exclusive with you. Have you had the exclusive talk with her yet?
Last edited by Wakeup; 19-12-15 at 12:42 PM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion