fear of commitement?

[taidriver]

Hello,

When you know when a woman has real "fear of commitment"?

The story :

Part 1/
I know a woman since years...she once stayed with me (we ere both drunk). Nothing happened.
While she stayed with me that night we felt asleep together and we talked that the time was not good to start "something". She has had "bad relations...".
For me neither the good moment. Anyway we felt asleep...
She asked me in the morning to visit her in the afternoon...but i didnt go because i was sick. I texted her later that evening.
I texted her to meet other day...but she said she had other things to do.

Part 2/
We didnt see eachother back for 6 months.
Then i saw her back on a party and we talked. She said why dont you invite me to your house for some dinner.
We finished the evening with saying we were going to do something together.
I texted her to do something else that dinner at my house. She said she was to busy with work...

After that message i didnt see or heard her for 2 years...

Part 3/
I did see her last night...we didnt speak because she had to go with her group just when i entered with my group.


What do you or i have to think about such situations?

[dollhouse]

She blew you off, I would write her off as a lost cause and stop devoting any thoughts or attention to her. I don't think it is a fear of commitment either she might have been lonely and used you for some attention and company but didn't follow through on it that is why the 2 year no contact. 2 year no contact is not even a good friend to you.

[Wakeup]

Agree.

There is no symptoms of 'fear of commitment' in your examples but rather just lack of interest in seeing you in a romantic way.

Time to just stop any interaction/contact with her whatsoever.