My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years. Two years into our relationship I was going through some difficult life events (my parent died at a young age of a terminal illness) and so we broke up for a few months. During that time period he started dating someone else. A couple months into their relationship he and I reconnected and started dating. He broke up with her but she really is still in love with him and would like to still be with him. She is aware of me and our relationship status; although she and I have never met (although I have suggested that we meet he's not a big fan of the idea of her and I hanging out together and says she isn't either). He and I currently live together. They still communicate on a regular schedule (pretty much daily), they see each other to hang out once or twice a month, and they are friends on facebook (he and I are not, when I brought this up he asked me how I would feel if I were her). I have communicated with him that these things bother me, make me feel disrespected, and I find them hurtful but to no eval they continue. Am I being unreasonable? Thoughts, advice, and/or suggestions? Thank you!!