Originally Posted by
someguy21
I have dated before, but pursuing a girl is definitely not my strong suit. My last girlfriend made the first move on me, and any girl who seems remotely interested me loses interest when I don't say or do anything. Anyway, recently I went to a bar with my friends and I thought the bartender was pretty. I know bartenders tend to be generally friendly, and probably get hit on a lot, but this isn't a very big or popular place. We talked and got along. I added her on facebook and asked her to go see my friends band play at a local bar, but she said she had to work that night. I'm not sure if that was her way of rejecting me, or if she would be open to hanging out at some point in the future. I haven't seen her since. She also lives on a college residence, where it is very easy to hookup, so I wonder if there's another guy that she may be involved with. What should I do?