What exactly do you like about hanging out with her? Because it doesn't sound like you actually do. Some of her behavior seems a little strange, but you two just met, so maybe she is just a shy person when it comes to body contact. Everyone is different, so you can't always expect someone to react the same way you would when it comes to hugging/cheek kissing/whatever else. As for the name thing... that sounds like a non-issue to me. I rarely use people's names, tbh. In fact, I went an entire 5 year relationship with almost never calling my BF by his name. I think it's a little odd that you're hung up on that particular thing, although the rest of your concerns sound valid. Again, it's so soon in getting to know each other, so I don't think you should give up yet. Go out with her again and see how it goes. If she only ever talks about herself and seems bored when you're talking, then maybe she is more self-centered than you thought. Another thing I think is a non-issue is that you offered to pay and she didn't offer to pay... so what? Why would you offer to pay if you wanted her to pay half? It boggles my mind when people are passive aggressive about things. If you expected her to pay for your date, you should have been up front about that.
Anyway. Personally, I'm pretty much always willing to give someone a second chance, but I won't waste my time either; so I think you should consider going out with her at least once more. If you're still feeling frustrated with her, then consider it a loss and move on.
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