wierd kissing

[richardp]

Wierd problem.

I have a girlfriend that does not like to kiss me. After some talking - (it really took a while to figure out what is going on) she told me that the stupples of my beard is hurting her skin. She's got a very sensitive skin.

I am clean shaven and it does not matter how well I shave by the time the evening is over and we're making out she can't really enjoy it cuz my beard are hurting her (the hairs grow very fast and are very hard). Instead of turning her on I'm turning her off.

So, Im kind of stuck on what to do. Anybody have any ideas.

[Asip4u]

Do you really think that's the reason? I've never heard of anyone having that problem but maybe someone else on here can relate.

[Junket]

Maybe she's a lesbian.

[whaywardj]

Does bad breath ring a bell? You smoke cigarettes?

[whaywardj]

What are you, Fras? 12?

[richardp]

Don't smoke. I know it's not bad breath. Alwayz conscious of this & make sure it does not happen. Strongly doubt that there's another reason.

[whaywardj]

Well, if stubble is all it is, sounds as if you're gonna have to start shaving just before you meet her and/or carry a cordless shaver around with you. Try a depilatory, too. See if that makes a dif.

[misombra]

yeah get yourself a nice shaver...

or you could try letting it grow for a few days and waxing it. i've been trying to get my boyfriend to do this but he doesn't want to. but it would probably work really well.

[Only-virgins]

Thats sounds like a lame excuse. I am not impressed. She should be a able to do better.

[shh!]

Clearly OV, you have never kissed a man with 5:00 shadow. It CAN be kind of painful, depending on how full a beard he can grow. But if she still doesn't want to kiss after he shaves, then there is obviously another problem...

[misombra]

sometimes it's like sandpaper rubbing against your face! but for mikey it happens a couple days after he shaves, so it does sound a bit lame.

[shh!]

I have kissed a man with painful stubble; generally the painful ones have very dark, coarse hair and have the ability to grow a real beard (not like the whimpy little thing that Johnny Depp sometimes wears). Yes - sandpaper is an accurate description - but depending on my mood, I sometimes liked it.
:-)

[lilwing89]

hmm yea...i dont really have much of a beard, im 16...but waxing it sounds like a nice tip.

[misombra]

you could probably get it done cheap at one of those nail salons. if you do, you have to let me know how it goes...

[Hart of Gold 22]

buy her a big bottle of moisturizer, pull out the Nair, and i'm sure everything will be fine. lol.