What is the longest you've gone without sex?

[topazlight]

Way too long for my own good. Similar to a few on page one actually. Also, I don't care too much if I have sex or not if not engaged in a committed relationship.

[pcmaster]

I have a friend who went without sex for almost two years thinking her LDR was remaining as faithful only to find out after they broke that he never was. That must have felt awful to be that loyal and not have it returned. I always think if someone isn't monogamous they should be honest and go for someone more like them, not someone always faithful.

Now I would like to chat with a girl who waits for 2 years without sex.

[melancholia]

When I was single, the longest I went without sex was 5 months. Sex in a relationship is a 10 for me. It's extremely important to me. I want to feel attracted to my partner and attractive to him, and sex is a way for me to feel closer to him. My current boyfriend and I don't live together, but we see each other as often as we can -- from 3 to 4 times a week, and we have sex every time we see each other. A good sex life is healthy and very important, but everyone has their own idea of what sex means to them and how important it is. It's important to be with someone who is compatible with you when it comes to sex. If you're with someone who has a much higher or lower sex drive than you, it can cause issues down the road.