In need of long distance advice!

[lilsunfl0wer97]

I met a guy online through a anonymous website. He's from Australia, and I live in the US. (Long Distance, yes I know..) We instantly hit it off and we seemed to have quite a bit of similarities. He's a gentleman which makes me more attractive to him instead of his looks (we both are different races, he's white and I'm black). Two days after talking, we went further and he gave me his Snapchat, & Kik to continue our friendship. He started off calling me "my lady, dear, miss, ma'am" then progressed to "beautiful, amazing, adorable" I guess I have become a part of his life, but not physically. I started to quickly become attached to him. As a lady, I'm learning how to control my emotions and not take things to fast with a guy. I told him how I feel about that and he stated that it's my rules and I shouldn't forget that, he will still be my friend regardless. Friends turned into more quickly, I was texting him through Kik and he said "We may get busy & not talk for a day or two or go on holidays or something but I'm always here for you. I love you, and only you." He already confessed he loves me. I didn't want to be mean and not say it back.. (It's so easy to say those 3 words and not mean it..) I know I shouldn't have, but I indeed get attached to guy, and started fantasising life with him. Can you fall for someone you've never met? He also mentioned he will be honest with me as I would do the same for him, and that he's lucky he has me in his life because I'm perfect for him including my flaws and all. Lastly he concluded that we can be together one day. (Again, ANYONE cant something and not mean it) Recently he messaged me and asked if we can Skype. I told him that would be fine with me. He also said "I'm sorry I wish we can Skype more often" (btw I mentioned that to him in the past, I didn't expect him to remember!) We eventually didn't Skype due to internet problems, and he kept apologising which I reminded him it's fine, we have plenty more times we can Skype. But there's a slight flaw. He told me a plan. We call, sext, and then relax/chill. This isn't the first time he asked so then again I'm thinking in my mind : What if he's using me for sexual pleasure? What are some things I can look out for? And lastly, we've been talking for a while now, and he hasn't me to be his girlfriend! For someone that said they love me soooo much & would love to be with can't commit. He won't even call me by my name sometimes unless I ask him too... What's going on here..? I just need some advice on what to do! Any and all advice will be gladly appreciated, don't hold back anything!

[pcmaster]

I doubt hes using you for pleasure. Theres no pleasure in long distance. Also its hard for me to call girl girl in her name cause it seems too formal. I do it if Im angry. He didnt asked you to be his GF because you are long distance. I wouldnt call girl my GF id we never met before. At least wont say her shes my GF but might think and feel like that.

I would suggest to try something local - meeting and being close are amazing. Its great to chat too but its not full package. I wasted years chatting with girls I never met. Now that I found local girl I will never go back to LDR.