Well man your are not obligated to marry her. But while shes with her husband official hes her number one guy. So you always being this spare tire that can be dropped at any moment. I would not suggest to contiune if shes married. Tell her how you feel and talk with her about these important things before going deeper in. Also dont listen to how horrible her husband are and how great you are. They all do that. - Taking the victim role and playing on guys feelings. Look at her actions not words.
Rule of thump is - If relationship have to be a secret you dont have to be in it.
Last edited by pcmaster; 27-12-16 at 06:17 PM.
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