Was he calling me fat?

[Rubyrose.83]

A guy that I'm seeing described me as voluptuous. I instantly got upset & took it as him calling me fat, which I'm not. Do men use words like this to politely imply that a woman is fat?

[richiro]

nah.. it doesn't mean they are thinking 'fat" when they say that.
when a guy says voluptuous that is a positive comment. it means he finds you curvy and sexy.

i nkow that females tend to not be as direct and "hint" at things. guys are not like that. we're a bit more direct and obvious. if we think you're fat, you'll know it. voluptuous is a positive in the minds of males.