I have been in a loving committed relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years now. And everything is OK, just a NORMAL good relationship. But honestly there have never been THAT something between us that makes a good relationship GREAT. He isn't really romantic, there have never been crazy passion between us, I don't even remember having butterflies in my stomach in the beginning or anything like that. Though sometimes it is really good, we have some great moments together, we also fight sometimes, but there's always SOMETHING MISSING.... Though I could easily see myself with him for the rest of my life just being NORMALLY GOOD TOGETHER...
And recently I met another guy. I've been going to this course for two weeks and there is this guy there, he's funny, interesting, free spirited, we always have a good time together, but I only thought about him as a friend until two days ago...Because I am in a happy loving (at least I thought so) relationship, he also has a girlfriend, though he talked about leaving her...so I never really even thought that something could happen between us. And then two days ago a group of us went out for some drinks after the course and by the end there was only the two of us left, and he said some things and then he kissed me and it was MAGIC. SERIOUSLY. In that one moment everything changed, was like a movie, where you feel like you two are the only people and my knees were weak and it was just PURE MAGIC. And then we walked around a little holding hands and kissed some more and then we went home (separately).
And I've being going CRAZY ever since. He texted me saying the same thing. He said he's with his girlfriend but all he can think about is me. And that for him everything was also normal and then I ruined his NORMAL life.. And I feel the same thing about him.
Neither of us want to hurt our partners, but being in our old relationships while feeling like this also doesn't sound like an option...
Please please tell me what to do. Any advice will be much appreciated. I know I should talk to him and together decide what to do or not to do..But that's logic and it feels like logic is such a lost concept right now..I am literally HAPPY and MISERABLE at the same time...