Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He says he loves me and is very happy. He has a transfer with his job next year which will take him 1000's kms away. I am a bit anxious that he might not want to continue on with me then as he never talks about the future. I am afraid to ask him but I feel that I have invested emotionally into this relationship to not just have it end when he moves and having wasted 2 years. I'm not sure whether to approach him about it (I'm actually terrified that the answer will be no) to ask him what are his intentions. Should I wait a bit or ask? I know that if he isn't interested in committing then I will have to end it but the anxiety keeps growing and maybe I have to accept that my asking might end things which really will be heartbreaking - any suggestions? Thank you